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ok so this is inspired by
:blue_heart: @Butterfly_ep
First things first 1.Don’t be rude You can give constructive criticsm though.
2.Being nice won’t harm you so be nice AaNnDd don’t say anything which can hurt anyone.
I guess there are somethings which hurt us so maybe we can share our stories because it may help others or maybe by sharing it you may feel good
I was in LoVe with a guy #noshitsherlock and I thought he was the one AaNnDd by one I don’t mean the man I am going to marry or have kids by the one I mean a good friend a supporter a good boyfriend maybe ; I used to think maybe if we don’t end up together we would be there for each other caring about each other but boy I was wrong I was so so wrong .you are entering in a flashback Soo I had a crush on a guy and surprisingly he had a crush on me too butt not that :peach:butt the but with 1 more :tea: I think i forgot to tell 1 minor detail I have a problem I can’t socialise so when (my crush) told me he likes me in front of my class I fuqing ran away yess I ran away becz I was scared what if this was a prank or what if he was playin truth and dare and got a dare but it wasn’t he liked me come back in present time I was over the moon we were together for 6 months and I couldn’t be more happier but the things were going to change he started becoming controlling like really really controlling telling me what to wear when i shouldn’t use my phone what things I should tell my cousin brother and my best friend p.s they (my cousin and my guy best fiend and one female best friend)are the only people who are super super close to me and also be my ex and my ex best frnd were in same school butt different classes. one day he comes and tells me that I shouldn’t talk to my guy best friend I was ofcrs mad and when I started arguing he slapped me did i forgot to tell It wasn’t the first time he was doing this but it was the first time he slapped me in public ugggh I thin I am boring people by writing so much . in the end he cheated on me with my best friend and when i confronted him he wasn’t even denying or regretting plus he told me how ugly I am which made a big impact on me I was over his :poop: so we broke up and lockdown happened we all were in our houses so I don’t know what is happening with him now and I don’t even want to know :nail_care:t4:
Let’s share our stories and insecurities and help each other

p.s this is me around two years ago

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Yo you missed itt :slight_smile:

:heart: :heart: u are beautifull :heart: :heart:
I am going to sleep now beacause the time is 2:11pm
if this flops

u didn’t saw anything

and I didn’t made anything.
last I have a crush on my best friend :monkey_face: and I can’t digest anything like this also
I can’t tell my cousin becz he will tell me I told u so :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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First of ALL: You are beautiful and never I repeat Never let anyone disrespect you like that again.
Second of all: The guy is a full on piece of sh** and he can go to hell.
Thirdly : That was not your best friend if she never had your back se was just a snake .
Forth: Did I ever tell you you are beautiful, well let me say it again YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.
Next time some one treat you like that call them out and if they do not change cut them off, life is too short to be keeping around toxic human beings that drain your energy.

On my insecurity topic.
I never had any true friends growing just my siblings, I when I was in high-school I gained some friends.
Things took a turn early 2019 when I lost a sibling to suicide because I cut people off because I was too scared they will die on me and I would not be able to handle it. But now I am slowly getting back my confidence and friends so water under the bridge

Ohh… I forgot to tell you YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. :wink: :heart:

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This is why I don’t believe in love!

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I almost had a stroke trying to read the title without stuttering
but coming to the topic, you’re not ugly, he’s the one with an ugly brain and heart :clown_face:
My insecurity- uh maybe that I can’t sing?

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I would love to kick his a** :skull:

I’ve never told about this incident to anyone, not even to my parents (which I should have but if only I would haven’t been that dumb at that time)

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This happened to me when I was in 4th grade. I used to sit and play in one uncle’s house who lived on 4th floor (I live on 5th floor). I used to visit him everyday. Once I was just sitting on the chair watching here and there lol. He came from the kitchen and told me to let him sit on the chair and I can sit on his lap. As soon as I sat on his lap he hold me tight. I was a bit scared. I tried to get up he won’t let me. He started me touching me where he shouldn’t have. I was literally struggling to get up and run away but my thin body wasn’t that strong. Before it would’ve went further someone knocked on the door. I was so relieved. As he opened the door I ran away. I went home and went directly in the toilet. I cried so much but silently so my parents won’t hear me. I still regret not telling my parents what happened that day. I stopped going there. Whenever I used to see him I would feel like stabbing him. He doesn’t live hear now. From that time I have become so conscious about my safety that I learned basic self defence, and I am already short tempered so I can even kill someone. I have also gained weight so no one can pick me up from behind nor can get away from me if they do mess with me :smiling_imp:
I have become so conscious that I don’t even let my parents touch me. My mom loves tickling me so whenever she tickles me I always shout at her saying that, “Do not touch me”. That’s why I hate stories with weak MC, and scenes where MC is nearly in the same sexual harassment situation and LI saves her.

Thanks to you. I finally got the courage to share this.

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Wow, sorry it had to happen to you. It could’ve been better if you told them so you wouldn’t have to carry the burden alone.
Just remember you do not only have to protect yourself physically only you should also worry about your mental health too. So the trauma doesn’t haunt you all your life and keep you in one position,
:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :butterfly: :butterfly:

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Yes Ikr!! But only if my dumb self would have thought about that because a part of me thought that they won’t believe me because they knew that uncle from the time he started living in our building.

Yes, True!!!

Thank you so much for your kind words! :blob_hearts:

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pleasure :heart:

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You are really really strong girl A strong bad@ss girl :black_heart: :heart:
Thnxx for sharing :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

^_^

I won’t say i can relate with your whole situation or I can understand your pain becz i dont becz i never been through it but I can relate with the not telling my parents part because my parents are really strict they never approved me for having a relationship so when all of this stuff happened to me when he abused me mentally and physically I couldn’t tell my parents I used to cry whenever I was alone I couldn’t sleep at night ; I regret everyday not telling my parents about him I was so scared that my parents will be so disappointed with me they would think I am pathetic I still regret but I don’t have the courage to tell them and personally I want to stay away from him I don’t want to see his face never

I do agree now most of the community stories are mafia stories in which there will be a weak girl and a fuqboy I personally don’t have anything against mafia stories but I guess u understand how irritating the story line is

p.s I use a lot of because

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Thank you sweety :pleading_face:

Ikr!!! I do have a lot of things against mafia story lol but well I am not reading it nor supporting it so it is none of my business.

Haha I feel you!

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I am bad at keeping titles then :skull: I guess I thought it was funny ok I know I am weird u don’t have to tell me
I suck at singing too but I still scream and irritate my neighbours :smirk:

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This is what my sister does :rofl:

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:smiley:

I am using emojis because I really don’t know what to reply :grimacing: I can’t hold a conversation :pensive: but u are really really nice person :heart: I just hope I am not that boring…

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:stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: :rofl: :smile: I really don’t like my neighbours becz they are those typical sharmaji wale (if u are indian i think you’ll understand)

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Damn the bad@$$ comment I was looking for😁

Back to the topic- what I understand from the story (@aditi_writes )is the guy is over possessive. He is slowly cutting u from the relationship u got wit your friends n fam n by doing that he will better control u. As that way u can’t depend on others. I have seen these sort of guys. One of my cousin had a similar incident. Reading your story made me remember her story which was very similar. At the end the toxic relationship ended n she met wit someone far better n now they are happily married.
So yea it’s good u broke up wit him.

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It’s fine and don’t worry you are not boring!

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Oh same here lol. Even my parents are the same LMFAO!!! :joy:

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I suck at singing too, which is why when I sing in the shower; I think my family gets annoyed at me :sweat_smile:

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Lol I can relate :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: :grin:

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:heart: :heart:

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