Advice pls?.... Abt my life

So pls reply to this topic of you have experience…

Personal

So I got a boyfriend.
He is perfect. But I don’t fell like I am happy with him.
General I am not at all attracted to him… :pensive: I know I tried!
So my previous bf didn’t text me for 1 month so still active, still putting
100000000 selfies etc!

So I just ignored him. He just leave me on seen.
I needed to move on with my life.
Now there is this problem.

Episode regarded

So now.
I can’t write. I lost motivation nothing helps me NOTHING. I TRIED EVERY SINGLE THING.

Summary

Mentally I feel so so so lonely.
Idk what to do or say.
I JUST FEEL LIKE A FAILURE
I EVEN HATE MYSELF SOMETIMES.

Pls don’t judge me. I don’t have anyone in my family to talk to I live alone with my mom so I just wanted to ask advice to yall

:star2: Daya :star2:

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OMG I HAVENT EVEN READ IT YET, BUT GIRL I WOULD LOVEEEEEE TO BE UR FRIEND OR NEW BESTIE TO RANT TO IF UU WANT!! :pleading_face: :pleading_face: kay lemme read it now haha, but if uu do wanna be new friends, them pm me maybe ? :two_hearts: :pleading_face:

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Hey please don’t give up. I know it’s hard but you need to believe in yourself to go threw these things. And remember , that someday all these problems will end. And because of your boyfriend have you ever thought on being asexual? :green_heart:

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Hey…so…I am sorry i dont have any advice but…(I made the same thread to get some advice today :expressionless:)
we can become frnds if you want

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Sounds like you need to focus on self healing and learning to love and accept yourself. You’re worrying about the wrong things at the moment. Doing some self reflection may help you.

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Personal: If you don’t feel like you’re happy with him, leave him, and yes move on with your life. Chase your goals, not people, but if u want to continue to find love, then it is your choice.

Episode: It’s hard to find motivation, read stories, listening to music, helping others with coding, etc. But, don’t worry, you will get that motivation. Keep pushing for it. No matter how long it takes.

Yourself: You’re not a failure, never call yourself that, and don’t hate yourself. Love yourself. You are a good person, you are wanted, you are strong, you’re beautiful just the way you are. Everyone is different, not the same. You have your whole life ahead of you, make it count. Do things that you love, and want to do in your life. Don’t let anyone bring you down and if they do, get back up on your feet, and do your thing. I know life hits you very hard, but sometimes, u have to get back up to push forward. Be the person who you want to be in life.

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@syddstories and @tessa28
Tysm sweety. I will make sure to ping you both

@teekay
Hey sweetheart… No I am not asexual… I am straight… :pensive: Just not attracted to him alone…

@TamiRose
Tysm sweety I will focus on that

@lanafrazer_episode
Tysm sweety for your valuable advice

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You can be asexual and straight. Asexual just means that you experience little to no sexual attraction to others. :slightly_smiling_face:

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Yea. :relieved:

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hey so i’ve actually been through the exact same thing for real life

i mean read my bio, i’ve been through almost everything (so if u wanna rant or vent or what just pm me okay :kissing_heart:)

mayb just take a break. from texting the guy
hang w ur friends, grab food tgt or something.

i, uh, i’m not too great at giving advice with only a part of the story, so mayb u wanna pm me and tell me everything from the start? if u wanna. also we could bcome friends :wink: :blob_hearts:

i’m sure everything will get better
it may be stormy now, but it can’t rain forever!

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Maybe you need more you time. Time to figure out what you want.

Maybe take some time for yourself, write some stories take your mind away from other things in life. Just do what makes you happy. :wink:

There is always light on at the other side, don’t forget that :grin:

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