Part 2 (last part) =
Since the last part was pretty much an explanation of unhealthy relationships and mutual ones, I’ll separate the definitions to a paragraph or so each to make it simpler for anyone reading these (These will be MY definitions. Yours may be different)…
Mutual Relationships = These are when a relationship ends after BOTH people agrees to end it.
A Few (Not All) Possible Examples For These Break Ups To Happen =
- One or both people in the relationship need to grow as their own person
- The ‘spark’ has gone from between them and they no longer see each other romantically
- One or both people in the relationship are going through hard times and need a break from the relationship to help them gather their life back together
- Or some other reason (there are loads)…
Physically Bad Break Ups = These are when a relationship ends after ONE person decides it’s over. These are often when there is a power imbalance in the relationship. Meaning that one person was probably abusive (Hence the ‘physical’ in the name).
A Few (Not All) Possible Examples For These Break Ups To Happen =
- Someone’s abusive and the other ends it since they can’t take the abuse any longer
- The abuser ends it when you no longer react the way they may want/expect you to
- Someone ends it after the abuse is taken too far
Emotionally Bad Break Ups/Mentally Bad Break Ups = These are when a relationship ends after ONE or BOTH people end it. These are often EITHER when someone is manipulative/controlling to the other…OR when someone is just struggling to come to terms with breaking up (even if it was mutual).
A Few (Not All) Possible Examples For These Break Ups To Happen =
- Someone becomes manipulative/controlling and the other wants out
- Someone experienced a break up at some point and is struggling to move on with their life/leave the relationship in the past
- Someone becomes depressed (or something similar) from losing/breaking up from the other person
I will not detail/explain my break ups much since they’re both private and I’m keeping them that way. What I will do is remind everyone not to talk in any detail/romantically to strangers online! I have a valid reason to emphasize that but just don’t ask since I probably won’t give much details. All I’ll say on that fact is that u must remain safe and talking to strangers like that online won’t keep u safe, it endangers you.
If for whatever reason you are talking to people in detail/romantically online…then do the necessary checks just to be a little more safer! I’m making a thread soon about this sort of topic which I’ll link in this comment when I do but just do the necessary checks to keep yourself and people around you safe (:
Overall feelings/thoughts from break ups (A mix of mine and others) =
- Self-Doubt
- Depression
- Loneliness
- Regret
- Relief
- What Ifs ( if this that and the other happened…would that change the overall outcome?)
- Sense of Independence
- Sense of Freedom
- Hope
- Sense of New Beginnings
- Strength
- And more…