Yeah, there are so many maf*a stories that I think that would be fine. Also it is not always allowed there was been many stories that have had to change things or been removed if it can’t be altered. Plus episode takes time to review stories so some stories might have slipped.
And for your second question yes I have come across many male users on the forums. More than I expected if you go around threads you will come across them. Also you could make a seperate thread for that to make male friends on here since you will get responses for them there. 