Ok… So there’s a guy who makes me uncomfortable. And he does things that make me uncomfortable. He’s touched my breasts more than once. He knows my friend too. I wish I could speak up and tell him to stop, but I can’t.
I’m sorry for what’s happening to you. I know exactly how you feel, the thing is… men but also women! do this for power. They try and make you uncomfortable, they’ll compliment you for them to make you feel like they like you. So you think that they are innocent That’s literally what they are trying to do! But your do need to stand up for yourself. I know it’s hard but you will get through this if your not safe in a situation get out of it. You never know what can happen next. If it gets too extreme go to the police! Please. If you need anything please ask. I’ve been through this situation with one of my “close friends”.
Remember if you feel uneasy while around him, leave.
@loveyourself I absolutely agree with May . We need to stand up against the odds. In my opinion when you are uncomfortable or when you are feeling uneasy please leave him because any unpleasant situation may arise if you will not take any immediate step against that guy.
These type of things are done by mean - minded people. They want to show their good side. They show that they really like you but everything is false.
So please my friend, take immediate action against him before it’s too late and never fall in his trap.
Never feel disgusted with yourself. It isn’t your fault he’s been inappropriately touching you, but you can take a stand against him. It’s your body, and if he touches you again, you have the right to go to the police and charge him for sexual harassment.
Take a stand against him. It might be hard but remember you have friends IRL and on here to support you every step of the way! Never forget that!
First of all, I’m so sorry to hear that. As a guy, I feel digusted by that person. This is clearly inappropriate and his purpose of doing so is so you would feel little of yourself. Is he your schoolmate or what? I would advice you to bring a pepper spray along with you or ask a guy friend to be with you when you’re around with him.
I know what it feels like to be weak and disgusted. I understand if you’re too afraid to confront him in case you will make him more aggressive or something. However, this is not someone you could avoid, you have to tell someone you’re comfortable with. If you know how to contact his parents, then go for it! Tell his parents about this issue. I’m sure everyone’s parents wouldn’t want their children to cause trouble. You can stalk his socail media as it is possible for him to tag his parents. If you really don’t know what to do, then take legal action. Avoid that hoe at all costs.
Since I’m a dude, I can’t relate to this matter. This is just my POV as a guy.
I say you should try your best not to be there when they fight. Try to be somewhere where you can’t hear them. So try your best to stay out of the way. It’s not your job to try to stop them or interfere
I got mskskskolested when I was a kid and the guy who did it called me horrible pet names like darling and sweetheart. We’re getting building work done at our house and the builder calls me, my mum and sister things like that- darling, sweetie. And he brings presents for my mum, and my sister. He’s married. It just scares me a little, even though I know that realistically he probably doesn’t mean anything by it. Maybe he’s just an affectionate person, idk. Should I be scared?