Hey! I have a sneaking suspicion that Prelynn is talking about me here(
). I’m guilty on doing this, unfortunately, so I think can offer a bit of insight. I can’t promise that it’s the same reason why they do it to you, but it’s very similar to my situation.
I have problems where I don’t always have a lot of motivation to do things or talk to people. Things like drawing, writing, talking to friends can be difficult for me when they should be relaxing or fun. Sometimes I can do these things for a long time and not get bored, but then I will have to stop for a long time completely. This happens with most people I talk to. I will talk very actively for a few days and then stop talking/responding to messages for 1-2 days. It’s not like I don’t like to talk to them, or I don’t like the activity I’m doing, it’s just hard for me to want to do it at certain types or to feel motivated to keep up with it.
I love talking to people, making friends, etc, but sometimes I just don’t want to talk to anyone, not even my very best friends. It’s nothing having to do with what they said or what they did, it’s just me.