Every crush before felt the same, but this time it feels different. Like I’m meant to be with him but maybe I just super weirdly attached in some way. idk. Although we don’t talk much while working, he always manages to make me laugh & put a smile on my face when we do talk. His silly little dance moves, jokes, & helping me out with work even though we work in different departments. Also, Let’s not forget his smile.
I’m having a hard time figuring out if he also likes me or is just being friendly. He’s kinda outgoing while I’m super shy & awkward. Any advice would be appreciated & not that it matters too much but we’re both young adults.
Every crush before was just puppy love. I was young and dumb. I’ve matured over the years and I’m ready for a relationship when the time is right.
Edit: I’m also moving to different state in 2 months for about 3-4 months. Hoping to come back here after. I would love to hang out with him before I leave and possibly get his number but I have a hard time with that kinda stuff.
Thanks!
Update: So I found out that I’m moving sooner than I thought which means I’ll be giving my two week notice in about a week.
Also, found out that he’s 3-5 years older than me, but I’m 95% sure he’s 4 years older (btw I’m 18) I personally don’t have a problem with the age gap but we’re in different parts of our lives. I’m hoping he doesn’t have a problem with the age gap either.
Now the fun part I told you all I’m very shy and anti-social. That being said when I have a crush I kinda get nervous and that makes me not talk even more. This is where I believe I f*cked up because we haven’t talked a lot lately. Every time I want to say hi or ask how’s it going, I don’t, then I regret it. I would also like to point out that I’ve been dealing with harassment issues and I’ve kinda distant myself from everyone.
I’m panicking because my time is running out and I feel like I’ve messed it all up. Not to mention, I’m overthinking about “prettier girls” and “would he even want to be my friend bc…” It sucks and I just started having these thoughts since we haven’t talked.
But on a positive note, when reading the board with all the co-workers “about me” stuff, I found out he likes hiking and photography as well!!
I actually think you should make the first move and ask for his number! You don’t need to ask as a love interest but just as friends would be great! Depending on your answer, does he know if you’re moving?
I can’t give you advice as I have never had a boyfriend but I can relate to a few of your crush things(with my crush of course).
I know that with all of my previous crushs that I felt like we could date but not have a solid future together. Where as with my current crush, I fell like we could get married and bave kids, etc.
Same…
Same! It’s so weird! He’s like the only on that I know I smile a lot with(and my best girl friend told me that I apparently blush when I talk to him a lot).
If he knows that you’re moving, I recommend saying something like this, “Hey, so you know I’m moving soon right? Anyways, I’d like to keep in touch when I move so is there any chance I can get your number?” I’m sure he won’t say no!
If he doesn’t know that you’re moving, I recommend saying something like this, “Hey, so I’m moving in about two months. It’s not permanent, but I just wanted to know if you wanted to keep in touch! If so, can I get your number?”
If I would be you I would make the first step . Otherwise you won’t know whether he’s interested or not. Just as it was already mentioned, take the moving to another state as a reason to get his number, just to keep in touch . There’s nothing wrong with it, and if he really likes you, he will definitely not reject you! I wish you all the best and good luck girl
Nobody knows I’m moving other than close family. Thanks for giving me an idea on what to say. I would overthink it. Also, I’m sure the word will spread around work once I put my 2 week notice in.
Update: So I found out that I’m moving sooner than I thought which means I’ll be giving my two week notice in about a week.
Also, found out that he’s 3-5 years older than me, but I’m 95% sure he’s 4 years older (btw I’m 18) I personally don’t have a problem with the age gap but we’re in different parts of our lives. I’m hoping he doesn’t have a problem with the age gap either.
Now the fun part I told you all I’m very shy and anti-social. That being said when I have a crush I kinda get nervous and that makes me not talk even more. This is where I believe I f*cked up because we haven’t talked a lot lately. Every time I want to say hi or ask how’s it going, I don’t, then I regret it. I would also like to point out that I’ve been dealing with harassment issues recently and I’ve kinda distant myself from everyone.
I’m panicking because my time is running out and I feel like I’ve messed it all up. Not to mention, I’m overthinking about “prettier girls” and “would he even want to be my friend bc…” It sucks and I just started having these thoughts since we haven’t talked.
But on a positive note, when reading the board with all the co-workers “about me” stuff, I found out he likes hiking and photography as well!!
-I think that you have to take care of yourself first and a very important thing is not to put too much pressure on the crush, on him, nor yourself.
-Try talking about some photos you love or how hiking makes you feel
-Link below is a dating coach, he’s a cool guy, he may help you
Go for it!
I’m 24 my partner is 30 in may
We met when I was 19.
He was meant to be a one night stand but I got pregnant that night so umm 5 years and 3 children later here we are
Oh girl, never let the age gap be a reason to doubt! I think that a certain age gap is really good! I had a boyfriend years ago and when I met him I was 22 and he was 28(now I’m nearly 26 and he’s 30) and i can say that I loved the maturity he had .
And please take the initiative . And talk to him! Make sure not to have any regrets when you’re leaving! I’m rooting for you!
It could be there’s a lot of drama involved. I hated him when pregnant would only call him when I wanted food bringing Spoke to loads of different guys. He slept with someone else when I was pregnant etc (we was on a ‘break’) anyway we was still sleeping together and I ended up pregnant with our second child and been together properly 100% committed ever sincE
idk. Although we don’t talk much while working, he always manages to make me laugh & put a smile on my face when we do talk. His silly little dance moves, jokes, & helping me out with work even though we work in different departments. Also, Let’s not forget his smile. 
Any advice would be appreciated & not that it matters too much but we’re both young adults.
. Otherwise you won’t know whether he’s interested or not. Just as it was already mentioned, take the moving to another state as a reason to get his number, just to keep in touch 
. There’s nothing wrong with it, and if he really likes you, he will definitely not reject you! 
Also, I’m sure the word will spread around work once I put my 2 week notice in.
. And talk to him! Make sure not to have any regrets when you’re leaving! I’m rooting for you! 
Spoke to loads of different guys. He slept with someone else when I was pregnant etc (we was on a ‘break’) anyway we was still sleeping together and I ended up pregnant with our second child and been together properly 100% committed ever sincE