So there is a guy who lives in the same flats in which i live and i kinda think that he likes me. I donāt know i just get a feeling that he likes me and I got feelings for him too now so basically whenever he passes by when i am walking, he fixes his hair and tries to near me and starts observing me or you can say that tries to make eye contact or something. But me on the other hand, I am veryyyyyyyyy shy and everytime our eyes meet, i just look down at the ground and my breathing automatically gets faster and i get butterflies . I know it sounds stupid but its true It started from me thinking that he likes and and now i am the one who likes him and i donāt even know whether he likes me or not or i was just overthinking what do you guys think does he likes me or it was just me who overthought it Iāll be happy to receive some tips too!
to me i think he might like you you should if u want make friends with him then see
I am too shy to do that but still Iāll try to talk to him
just a simply hi just might do to i am shy with my crush as well and seem to do stupid things when i see him
Omgā¦lol. You are going off on what you think and not what what is real. You wonāt know if he actually likes you or not and vice versa if you donāt talk to him. If you want to know if your crush is real, talk to him. A simple āhiā is enough to get something started. If you donāt make a move, then he wonāt know if you are interested.
Hmm youāre right Iāll def try to say hi
Sameeee
im glad someone can relate like one time he walked by and i tripped over ~air~
Have you ever spoken to him beyond neighborly "hey, how are you"s? If you havenāt, I think you should try to strike up a conversation, compliment his hair if heās fixing itāor if heās wearing a cool shirt. Just polite not over the top compliments and be friendly.
If anything, youāll be able to sus out if heās flirty or just friendly.
And if he does like you itāll give him the signal that itās okay to interact with you beyond trying to make eye contactā which may give him the confidence to make his intentions known and if he doesnāt like you āin that wayā you will gain a friend, and itāll help you overcome your shyness for the next guy to come along because it takes a lot to be the first to say āhey, whatās up?ā than people who arenāt shy thinkābut once you do it a few times, youāll gain a little more confidence in interpersonal interactions.
So I think you should give it a shot, and just talk to him. Best case, he does like you and it could develop into more OR youāll gain a new friend who lives close enough to hang out with. I donāt really see a downside to either.
Well girl he clearly likes you! buckle up and go talk to him! Nothing bad will happen! Iām sure he loves you, I mean seriously itās really clear now lol!
Omg lol
But he is always with his friends so they wonāt overthink right?
Omg yayy Iāll try fosho
I donāt think anyone will think anything odd of it- like I said, no need to be over the top or over complimentary-- but saying a āheyā or " thatās a cool shirt- do you like (whatever it is on the shirt)" will let him know itās okay to interact with you in a friendly manner.
My husband and I started as friends and weāve been together for almost 8 yearsā¦ so just be nice, kind and give yourself a chance to step out of your comfort zone. It doesnāt have to be a 2 hour conversationā¦ It could be a simple āhey, have a nice dayā type conversation-- it opens the lines of communication and interaction.
Omgggg thatās so cute
Yeah, heās pretty awesome lol
I know it can be hard for a shy person to strike up a conversation-- while I myself am a very open-minded, and outgoing person-- I have a few friends that arenāt and need a little push to do things outside their comfort zone, but theyāre usually glad they did it.
And, as I said earlier, if it turns out heās not into you like that ā at least you will have made a new friend and you will have taken initiative to step out and try for what you want-- and that will make it that much easier for the next crush. Most importantly, be yourself-- donāt puff yourself up, or say you like something that you canāt stand, or try to make yourself seem like a different sort than you are. Just be you, be kind and keep your head up.
Thank you the tips! Iāll definitely make a friend at least
Remember, friends now could turn into more later or you could get a really great friend out of it. Either way, you win.
I canāt say anything but guys usually donāt make eye contact with the girl they likeā¦You should make him your friend firstā¦Then see what happens later
yup and then i just layed there