Because you’re the one who said what I disagree with? Even if you don’t agree yourself, I’m going to address the argument so as not to cause confusion
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I guess you’re limiting yourself from another million of people–?
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I know that’s me, that’s why I put the word personally.
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It still doesn’t really make sense to me but I respect your opinion.
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THANK YOU! You’re better with words lol.
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But we can respect your opinion and disagree. In fact, the fact that we’re willing to have a civil conversation about it implies we do respect it. If I didn’t respect it, I wouldn’t give it the time of day or I’d laugh about it.
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I didn’t address you at all actually, and this still does relate to the main topic because it is about other people outside of your own race.
The only reason I even said anything is because you seem so intent on drowning out what someone else is trying to say there, and that is unfair. Nobody is saying you have to agree. Just let her state her own opinion.
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I think not wanting to date outside your race (preferences) come sometimes be from our built in racism. For example, I see a lot of dark skin men say they prefer light skin women because dark skin women do x,y,z. Not considering the fact the they are dark skin themselves, their mom is dark skin and also light skin women can do the same things as dark skin. It’s just colorism.
It’s okay to have a preference as long as you’re not bashing other people. Date white people, just don’t talk down on black people. Date black people, just don’t talk down on white people etc …
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May I ask why you don’t find other races attractive?
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You don’t need to give me permission to reply to you, though. I replied to that comment because I disagreed with it and it’s usually forum etiquette to reply to the post you’re referring to, whether it’s the poster’s personal opinion or not.
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She did though…She just disagreed…
I find many other races attractive. Please don’t strawman me. I’ve said that many times.
Do I need to not find other races attractive in order to disagree with you?
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Limit means, “a restriction on the size or amount of something permissible or possible.”
Right. Your point being what? By dating people, you’re restricting yourself to one human being at a time. How would race affect that?
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Again taking words out of context and twisting them. You’re looking for a fight here, I didn’t say you needed permission to reply to me either. I simply stated I didn’t address you. Therefore I don’t understand why you’re trying to cause an issue for me simply trying to help someone else clarify their opinion.
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thank you for respecting my opinion. I respect yours as well because free will exist and I’m not God to tell you how to live. I just wanted to join the convo and express my thoughts lol
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Shes not creating an issue, it’s a simple debate.
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No. I replied to your post because your post was the one I disagreed with. I didn’t necessarily think that was your personal views. But I am allowed to disagree. That is a form of stating your opinion. And I did so very civilly.
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This is true ^^ honestly
You wouldn’t date someone you aren’t attracted to…? I mean, who would? Would anybody here date someone they aren’t attracted to?? LOLOL
Anyways, Foreign, you were specifically talking about dating someone and dating preferences right? Saying that just because you have a preference doesn’t mean you exclude other people?
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God, it’s like whenever you disagree with something simple, people see it as an attack but not actual attacks being attacks. Smh
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