Discussion: Would you forgive a bully?

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I was tell her I was bent Bully episode form and pick my feel still hurt sometime now feel so all along .

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Same, girl, same :sweat_smile::joy:

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Yes I have bent Bully

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I am same person that bent Bully I am still hurt me a lot .

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Glad you understood what I was talking about since people always do that. No one was born with confidence, you gotta work for it.

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Sorry to hear that :heart: But do not let them get to you. Everyone is beautiful, talented, everybody deserves to be loved, respected and treated fairly. They do not deserve your tears, sadness :heart::heart::heart::heart::heart::heart::heart: Stay strong and you will be able to conquer anything and anyone

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Thank you .some time upset learn disability that people pick on me.

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I know how you feel.

I have Asperger’s Syndrome and boy you won’t believe how many idiots pick on me for that just because I don’t make consistent eye contact, have episodes of meltdowns, seeking solitude most of the time and get anxious when my personal space is invaded.

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Well, I think that disability doesn’t make you different. Yes, you might not be able to do certain things, but you are a human, meaning you deserve as much love, respect, support, understanding, care as the rest of us :heart::heart::heart::heart::heart::heart::heart:Lots of love

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No . I’m not ever forgiving a bully.

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No body does help with my story and code no body I try get write parter that not work at all I don’t have help no more .people want still pick on some tell me bad English to.i am very start to I feel so along no help with my story be bully

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Thank I am nice person I don’t both no body at all I am love care person to.

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By the time I got out of school about ten years ago, I forgave the most. No point in wasting the energy.

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Hell to the naww!! If the bully has done countless awful things then don’t forgive and forget and i am talking from experience

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no-one is telling you to forget. Forgiving someone isn’t supposed to help the bully, it’s supposed to help you move on, and stop harbouring negative feelings.

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For me,nope

But I don’t think she’s a bully
Like,she’s been copying me 2 years for now! I have proof examples:When my bag is in my chair while her bag is in the floor I saw her clearly! She put her bag in the her chair too!!! Still don’t believe me? Another one,when im writing some letters/sentences my letters/sentences are small but hers before are big! Then when I just saw her writing,hers are now small! My younger sis always told me that when my sis accjdentally bumped her,she rolled her eyes! And my sis rolled her eyes and look away but my sis friend’s told her that she rolles her eyes again! I have so many proof tell me if u wang more proof haha!

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#EXPRESSO

I was just telling my opinion it’s hard for me to forgive

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Yeah, of course. I understand that. But I want to encourage people to learn to forgive, whether that takes days, months or years. I only want the best for everyone.

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ik, it just takes a lot for me to do so, my bullies are always around me, they never stop

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I dont know. not a single bully I had asked for it. a few years ago a few old class mates asked me to join a facebook group. a few the bullys was there. it went fine first but then they beging to bully me again. i just left . after telling them they had matured at all