Do you ever feel misunderstood?

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Do you ever feel like no-one understands you? Like you’re just alone with no one too turn to? I feel that a lot. Like, 87684939709684% of the time.

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um yeah

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yeah.

not necessarily for no reason, though. people in the past & situations in the past have an effect on it.

i hope you’ll be understood someday. honestly.

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All the time, man. All the time.
Put yer hands in da air, Hide-It-With-An-Upbeat-Attitude-Squad :raised_hands:

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I’ve been feeling that way lately. A few days ago I really felt bad, I didn’t know who to talk to. And when I did, the person stopped following me on Instagram.

I would like to find someone to talk to who felt or went through the same thing that I did. :pensive:

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What have you gone through? Maybe I or someone can relate? I would really love to help :heart:

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I used to, all the time, every moment of every day. But I have a good friend here who understands really well, and has been through a lot of the same thing, and I’m super grateful for her.

Mind if I PM you? I know something that could help.

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Well, I became obsessed with the fact that, according to me, two friends were not supporting me as they always did.

I began to feel that I wasn’t important, that no one cared about me, when in fact it wasn’t so. The thing is, when I talked to “Elmo”, he thought I was selfish, that I didn’t value the people who supported me (he’s right in that part). I mean, I understand his anger, but my reaction wasn’t selfishness. In the end, I lost three friends because of my foolishness. :worried:

“Elmo” doesn’t want to know about me, and I pushed away my other two friends because I realized I became a negative person… I thought, “Who wants a friend like that?” And to top it all off, “Barney” was offended that I made the decision for him. :anguished:

Now, I’m trying to improve that part of my personality that I hate so much.

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I did not went through such situation, but I’d be glad to listen to you if you ever need someone. I can be a good listener - and always try to give good advices, but sometimes just talking to someone help you realize a lot of stuff actually. So yeah feel free to message me :slight_smile:

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Thank you so much Hijiko! :thinking: I think we have done R4R before.

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Alll the time.

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Sometimes, i think that almost everyone feels like this at some point :thinking:

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Feel free to message me as well. I haven’t gone through that exact situation, but I know what it’s like to lose friends. PM me if you ever need anyone to talk to, at all. Even if it’s something small. My doors are always open :blush:

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Thank you so much. :smile:

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I feel that way a lot too. And the sad thing is – I feel that no one will listen to or care about me.

I feel that no one will understand my situation – what I feel, how I feel and why I feel. This makes me insecure and upset about myself. Usually, I end up masking my own emotions and putting up a brave front. I have this humorous cloak which I don every time I feel vulnerable to my emotions and fears, just to avoid them. People think everything’s alright with me when I do that, but its not…

I tell myself that it will be okay – and I know that’s a lie because nothing would ever be okay… I am scared to tell my secrets and feelings, to come out with them. I feel that I would be judged, that no one will accept me or love me anymore. I end up talking to myself alone in the bathroom when no one’s in the house. That way, I know that at least I have something or someone with me – my soul.

I wish someone would understand me, or at least listen to me without judging me. But, I know that it is impossible because society’s job is to judge, no matter how grave the matter is.

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All the time

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I get you, it’s like, I can’t talk to almost anyone because my friends don’t see things the way I see them. :pensive: It’s frustrating.

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Yeah. A lot of the time. But I get over it :money_mouth_face:

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It might not feel like I do or that I’m saying this genuinely, but I get it. Or, at least, I get what you’re describing. And just know that I can’t judge people even if I try because… well, I just can’t, lol. But no pressure. And if you ever feel like you want to talk to someone, if you want, you can PM me. And I know a lot of people say ‘sksksk I won’t judge’ and then they do, I’ve known a lot of people like that, so if you never PM me about it, that’s okay too. And how you said society’s job is to judge, that can be true. But I’m not society, I’m Haruka :star_struck: Either way, you will always be my awesome friend and thief but still ily :smiling_face_with_three_hearts::smiling_face_with_three_hearts::smiling_face_with_three_hearts::purple_heart::purple_heart::purple_heart::kissing_heart:

if anyone flags this I-

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Yea. It’s not a good feeling