Do you feel...?

I used to be big on the forums. People knew who I was. I was active. People knew me. I helped.

But I feel like slowly no one feels like they need me anymore. I can easily be replaced. It’s just. Small things. Like being excluded from group chats. My best friends becoming closer without me. There are only a few people I still talk to. What can I do to be back in??? Should I just be in more group chats??? Idk.

Anyway do you ever feel like that?

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Maybe you should start one huge post about what’s going on and tag the ppl so they understand. Maybe you should join a little something here and there.

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I think u should move on
People who care for you will show it and be in ur life
Theres millions well…a lot of ppl on the forums dont stress it

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Thanks. And yeah I don’t think there’s millions but there’s a ton lol

Yeah x3 maths never been my strong point ha
Still dont worry so much on it

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Lol it’s ok me neither.

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Yeah… I feel that way all the time.
I just stopped being friends with a person on the forums I’m not going to name and I’m not gonna mention the reason but I was pretty sad.

I just move on though, you can’t let that stop you from this. Things will get better, I know it. You’ll just have to be patient and wait.

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Thank you :smiling_face_with_three_hearts: you’re so sweet

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I feel that way all the time, even in real life. It’s cool though. In life, we’re born alone and we die alone.

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Yeah ik how you feel :sweat:

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Is it because you left the chats, possibly?

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No because. I didn’t? I came back a month ago. If anything it’s because I came back

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Oh I totally forgot sorry your friend is dUmB

So you feel like left out?

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U is not dumb. But yeah I feel left out

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i don’t know maybe you just need to try and reconnect with some people there 1-1 and it may take a while but I think it’ll be worth it

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What do you mean “get back in”? You never left, we all love you dearly even if you don’t know me which you don’t need to know that everyone loves you and won’t forget uu :sparkling_heart::sparkling_heart::sparkling_heart::heartbeat:

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If u feel left-out tell ur friends, so they can know and if they don’t make you feel more included that’s called fakeness… but if ur friends are as great as you then what if something is up with them? Ask how they aree toooo and who knows maybe they’re feeling them same way.

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Aww I feel the same. Back when I used to be a lot more active, I felt good. Everybody knew me and I felt kind of popular and I got so used to it that now that no one actually needs me here, I feel a little upset and left out.

I don’t know about the group chat thing since I left all of them musket when I realised I was no longer needed or welcomed there but what I do know is I can’t help how they feel. I guess I will just have to get used to being unimportant here?

And about you, Amani I still love you. Why don’t you let me add you to my group chats and join my crazy family? Catching up with everyone is what you gotta do girl. I missed ya.

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You cannot be easily replaced. You are not being replaced. It’s just people moving on. And that’s no fault of yours. People naturally move on, they find new friends, grow close, and later on, they might drift apart. I know how you feel, and I know this other person is bent on keeping her friends ‘safe’ from me because I’m going to steal them, so if I’m walking with her friends (who are also my friends), she will cut right in front of me so that I can’t walk without kicking her heels, so I have no choice but to leave. Being excluded can feel really bad, I know. I also know exactly how it feels when your best friends become closer without you. I go to school part-time due to my mental disorders, and I come back with my friends sharing inside jokes that I couldn’t be there for because I was stuck in hospital. I’m not sharing this so that you can feel sorry for me and feel like your problems are minor compared to mine. I’m sharing this so that you know you’re not alone, because you’re not. There are lots of people out there in the forums. Lots of fishies in the sea to make friends with (and a few mean sharkies to stay away from). Good luck, and I hope this makes you feel a little better. Find friends that appreciate you, that miss you when you’re gone. Sometimes group chats aren’t always that great, not when there are lots of people in it. I basically get ignored in a group chat I’m in, because there are so many popular people who have been on Episode for much longer than me, but I’m okay with that, because I know that it’s not personal, and I know that I have at least two people who do appreciate me.

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