I have a question for everyone…are you constantly worrying about your reputation on the forums?
Well for me that would be a BIG YES! For example before I send a message I and repeatedly checking it to make sure it doesn’t come off as rude, opinionated or bitchy! I understand that this community is supposed to me a friendly non judgmental environment…but sometimes it doesn’t feel like that. I am always worrying about being labeled.
I hate being labeled as a drama creator when all I am trying to do is stick up for myself! I am not someone who you can push around…for example, if you are going to post a 3 paragraph essay about how selfish I am…I am gonna say something. But then if I say something back to that person…then I’m the drama creator. I hate the fact that everyone on the forums has a label above their profile…some good some bad.
I also used to have a different account before this one…for this exact reason! I was sick of people judging me, because along the way I got a label plastered above my head.
I bet you that if I asked everyone on the forums about my old account at least half of the people would have something negative to say about me.
Am I the only one who feels this way?
Am I just overreacting?
And I just worrying to much about this?
Please tell me your opinion on this!