what do I do? There is this guy that I like and and he is already dating someone. But i feel like he is kind of into me. I have also had a huge crush on him my whole life and it has been my dream to date him. But i am not sure if I want to risk it. Please help 
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Going to go on a tangent because I recently lost my good friend to something stupid.
I’ve always considered myself a really good friend. I sit and listen to people. I always take into consideration their interests, tastes and dislikes before settling on plans. I let myself be myself around others, I’m always honest in a gentle way that doesn’t make people feel attacked. But, I have no friends left. No one from high school tries to connect with me, which actually doesn’t usually bother me too bad. Most of the people, in the past, that I’ve met online always use me for my art then are deliberately rude to me when I can no longer keep up with their need for free art.
But, what is bringing on all of this hurt right now, is I’ve sort of been dropped by my best friend. She’s gotten into some sort of ‘relationship’ that I keep seeing red flags in. I’ve voiced a few of my concerns but have told her that I’ll support her no matter what. And it was okay for a minute… but, then she stopped coming around, messaging me and my fiance, and just being there in general. It didn’t come to the point of completely cutting me off, but something shady happened. Now she’s just gone from my life, even though she is my neighbor.
I have no ill will towards her, I want her to be happy and I’m kind of worried for her in this “relationship”. I’m just hurt because it feels like any time I gain a ‘friend’ they leave me. I’m starting to worry that it’s me… I miss her…
I’m just happy I still have my fiance and his sister…
I don’t typically air out my dirty laundry online, but I needed to get this off my chest. I don’t want to tell me fiance or his sister and have them worrying about me.
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Awww I understand wat ure going tru, this similar tin happened 2me Nd I felt lik I was d 1 who had d fault. Nothing is wrong with u lovelyloren, she jst wasn’t meant 2 b in your life, ur real friends would com in2 ur life Nd u would actually wonder wer they’ve bin al along. Jst b ur true self Nd stay kind
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Thank you, sweetie. That’s a very good way to look at things 
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Hi. Do you want to be my friend?
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Would b girl moon girl 
I call periods:
Red ocean
Bloody waterfall
Zombie week
I need my sleep week
Leave me alone week
Dying week
I need ice cream week
Shark week
HI GIRLS this may seem immature but i’m jus expressing my feelings and i can’t tell anyone else cause … well everything
rant
when i wasn’t mature (not saying when cause i’m scared of hate lmao) i dated a guy and he was probably the best person i’ve ever met. him and i could talk for hours about anything. apparently (i found this out like a month ago) people said we were like a pOwEr CoUpLe, which is sweet, but was not my goal, ya know? but whatever. overtime, i just felt myself drifting away and decided he’s going to break up with you for being a bad girlfriend, so just do it first and i did. i felt relieved, since it was over summer. i was pretty sure that i was over him lmao dumbass SO then school came around and for like the first weeks we didn’t talk at ALL. then he started texting me and we slowly became close again. we called each other our best friend. slowly (this part makes me skdjskjds idk) him and my girl best friend started to like eachOTHER and date no shade but SIS cmon i, of course, realized my true feelings then and ARE YOU READY FOR IT i…liked HIM SJKJDSK NO lmao maybe even her but NOT the point lol and so i thought… no no NO PLEASE I NEED TO KEEP THIS A SECRET wow what a good friend. and so i did. for 7 months. literally the hardest thing (lmao no it’s not) and i actually did a pretty good job. only 1 girl suspected something and the guy was like ‘nAh’ so whatever, right. him and i got actually really close and we talked every night until like… 3 in the morning. smh i got no sleep so naturally, my annoying feelings started to deepen. yo i honestly think i still loved him. but um… no one should know that. and i could NOT keep my feelings in. and since i also hated confrontation, i sent him a long asstext telling him everything. i did NOT do it for a relationship cause yikes i suck at those, i did it cause he deserved to know. of course, he did his amazing thing and was like ‘oh it’s cool. we can still be friends :)’ EVEN THO WE WEREN’T EVEN TALKING ANYMORE and i’m like ‘bro… i just confessed all my feelings… i’m scared to be your friend’ and he’s oblivious and was like ‘why? you shouldn’t even like me’ so i had to go into self love for others mode and gave him a pep talk and stuff. right, end of that. SO NOW IT IS A NEW YEAR AND WE HAVE TALKED LESS THAN THE YEARS WE’VE KNOW EACH OTHER EVER AND I MISS HIM.
fast forward to this past 2 weeks my new best friends were talking about him, and were like ‘he said he regrets dating you.’ which made my heart literally break. and by now i’m thinking okay i’m over him, i like someone else so feeling horrible about it made no sense to me. what an idiot. jdksjdksjdk THEN TODAY, he comes by our lunch table which he does maybe once every 1.5 months and sits by me i nearly had a heart attack and he says hi to everyone with a handshake (sOo ChArMiNg) and then me last because that’s what he always does. so i slightly move away from him because i have to distance myself and just talk to my other friend. but then he says hi and i feel my face get RED AS HECK and i just look over at him and don’t say anything which was so difficult considering ya know he’s like amazing. and he says ‘wow okay.’ with a slight smirk and my other friend goes ‘oh my god.’ and people try not to laugh. and sis i was so proud. but now i’m rethinking everything because i also may like another guy and just ugh.
i need help with life ayyy
not as long as it seems when you click on it
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oh and for periods i call it ‘i’m dying week’ and most of my friends know what it’s about, including the guys
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Another one…painting the town red even thought Paint The Town Red is a PC game where you randomly beat up everyone at a bar. It’s funny!
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Lol ohh na God , am so proud of u. Jst move on girl, it happens 2 us all. I hate d fact he said he regretted dating u. Ure better off witout a guy who doesn’t appreciate u Nd cherish u
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I did 
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What is it?
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Menzies or Redz
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Paint it black?
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Correct!
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For periods my sister and I say. "I got my dot " like that’s it.
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Ain’t flo has come. That’s what I say. But most of the times, I don’t have to say anything kuade I get so cranky that everyone already knows it’s that time of the month.
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I love paint it black!
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Me too!
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