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I missed my period once like 4 months ago, my mom joked that I was pregnant and she’d buy my a test I lowkey did not find that shit funny though my doctor said that its common and doesn’t always mean your pregnant, it could be stress, a major weight gain etc. but she said it might be bc I had the flu and mono and same time 
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This is probably not a “girl problem” but I am a girl and do need advice.
SO, I’m working together with someone in my class with a project. We both wanted to do the same thing, so my teacher paired us together.
This student is a good student, they don’t normally slack off, they normally aren’t mean, and they’ve been called smart by the teacher multiple times.
But, so far, they have only created 2 slides, which is about probably 5 minutes of talking. Our project needs to be twenty minutes.
So, I’ve created 26 slides, and I have found all the links, and done most of the work.
I just did this today, because I really didn’t have time to do it any other time, and I was on a trip where I was so busy that I couldn’t email them about the project, but, I trusted them to get their part done.
They haven’t done anything except what they originally did, which is two slides.
Our project is supposed to be 20 minutes, and I’m not sure if it will hit that mark. I really don’t know what to do at this point, tomorrow I have to present. I don’t want to get this student in trouble, especially since they are a nice student. But, they’ve only created 2 slides, and haven’t emailed me.
Advice?
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Have a nice long talk with them… (definitely don’t go psycho on them)
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Girl I would tell the teacher so fast people who just don’t care on partner work is flipping annoying, and if you tell the teacher that you did your part then they’ll talk to the rest of the people. Or you can tell them:”AYE LISTEN UP GET OFF YALL LAZY BUTTS AND COME HELP BECAUSE IM NOT AND I REPEAT NOT DOING THIS ALL BY MYSELF DO I LOOK LIKE I WANT TO?! NO SO GET TO IT!” Or something along that line 
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They’re a really shy person though, and, it’s not like I’m angry at them, but I did hate doing all the work, and I got really anxious, I thought I was gonna be working on the project all night.
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Omg, I had the same problem except that girl has always been smart but a major bitch she didn’t finish her part and my grades aren’t great in that class, I basically blew up her snapchat she didn’t do it still and got a 0 for her part.
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You definitely shouldn’t be doing it all by yourself
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I mean, this student is really shy, and generally nice. I genuinely would hate to see them get in trouble.
But, if I let them read my slides, if the teacher asks them questions it’ll be pretty obvious that they did not do the work, or didn’t have time to do it.
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I know that sucks
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I know the feeling someone really close to me did something bad and I was really debating on what to do but you shouldn’t be doing this alone so maybe just email them so it’s not as bad for them
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Im kinda confused
maybe she has something going on at home that might impair her ability to do it? or is she just that lazy?
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Us girls gotta have each other’s backs so make sure she’s ok before taking assumptions
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And, the thing is, we only had one day to work together in person, and, I expected them to make more slides during the weekend or break…
I was really surprised and disappointed that they didn’t.
The student probably had a lot going on in their life or something, because if not… Then… Idk.
But, she could have found more time to work on it. I was so busy this week, and the only time I had to work on it was today because I had a weekend trip where I had to do a lot of stuff, and I used the day right before school starts, to just basically do all my homework… plus this project…
I would have been happy if she just made like, idk, at least like three slides or something.
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Yeah, I think I’ll just tell her before class that we can take turns reading a couple slides so it’s even.
And she probably had a lot going on, but she could have at least emailed me, or made a few slides, so I wouldn’t have to do all the work.
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Ok so what do you do when you feel like no one loves you? And everyone doesn’t even know you exist and if they do they put you to the ground
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That’s nice but you gotta tell them like hey you need to help hon
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You talk to friends or family members that you know care for you, and if you feel like even they can’t help you then you just look in that mirror and say something kind to you. Heck even talk to yourself if you need to. That’s the best way honestly showing yourself some self love if you’re not feeling it yourself from others
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The problem is my parents don’t understand they don’t get how bad it is even when I try to explain they just say that there is nothing I can do my brothers treat me like I’m a price of crap and I only have one friend because everyone else backstabbed me
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You haven’t found the right people yet. I feel that way too, every time I try to strike up a conversation, it’s like I’m ignored most of the time. I talk very loudly and repeat myself multiple times on a regular basis because I’m used to just talking this way… and having people just… not listen to me- or not seem invested in what I’m saying.
But, I’ve discovered that I need to work on myself first, before I am ready to make friends. I do have friends, but we haven’t really had that kind of connection yet.
Really, be your own person. Be your own best friend, be your own hero, and try everyday- to not care what other people think. When you are stable, when you are your own best friend, people will be attracted to you, you will find friends.
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