Help! ex- best friends are texting me!

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Y’all help my ex best friends are texting me and they put me through hell and back and now my life is finally starting to come together and they decided to hit me up and I do what to do I still care for them sadly but I don’t want to talk to them and/or go through that again but I don’t wanna say anything too mean cause I still care and hope they’re doing ok idk plz help me

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If you don’t feel like talking to them, meaning the right moment, then don’t. If you still have to take a break from them. But if u want to, just do a small talk about how they are doing, and that’s it.

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I’m not trying to they both hit me up and are texting me and I feel overwhelmed I don’t wanna talk to them tho but I don’t wanna be mean but I also want them to stop texting me I’ve been leaving them on read but idk I just feel super overwhelmed

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then block their number if u want, im not sure if they are any other options to let them not text/call u.

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I’m think about it idk (I’m probs gonna feel guilty if I do idk why they just have that effect on me)

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If that were me, I would block them. I ain’t letting no one take away my happiness. Especially, if I am starting to get back together.

But we’re different, I just wouldn’t have the energy for it.

For example, my ex best friend and I both stopped talking to each other. I feel so relieved and happy.

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exactly, dont feel guilty about anything, they’ve done you wrong, and now u need to stay away from them because u dont want to make that same mistake happen again. Move on, and get new friends who cares about you, etc.

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Yea I didn’t wanna talk to them rlly ever again but they keep texting me and I don’t know what to do and I’m literally on break and god is really just testing me at this point like I’m on break her was feeling better then this happens like come on I can’t have anything I just idk

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Wait — why would you feel guilty? They’re in your past. I don’t get why feel guilty?

I feel like you’re going round and round with this. When it can be solved in a second :joy:.

Block them, get a new number if you want.

NO bad vibes here :massage_woman:t4: Only good vibes.

But at the end I can only give my advice on what I’d do.

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I’m talking to people who care about me now (at least I think as u can see I have even worse trust issues cause of them but whatever) idk I just feel guilty one of them would love to play the victim in every situation so guess it still effects me idk…

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Yes I understand I feel dumb for not just blocking them but idk I cared about them shoot I still sadly care about them (why I have no clue) but I don’t know I just can’t block them cause I’ll feel guilty and I feel really overwhelmed I just I don’t know…

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Girl, it was hard for me to block my ex best friend but you have to do it for yourself.

Do I still care about her? Yes.
Do I wish her the best in life? Yes.

I hold onto the good memories she and I had. I’ll forever treasure them. But she’s in my past now.

I’m happy and so is she.

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Yea I really wanna try to block them but idk when I ever I get close to hitting the block button i chicken out this is literally like when I try to call people I just can’t it scares the crap out of me to call people and this is having the same effect on me idk I literally just wanna go cry in the corner I literally hate people so much for this reason they’ve stopped texting me for now so maybe they got the point or I just wasn’t paying attention and they did text me

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I don’t want to be rude, but I — this is bringing back bad memories my ex best friend and I had.

From what I read, this is toxic for no reason. Correct me if I’m wrong anyone. But if you don’t want to block them, simply text them “Stop texting me”.

Anyways, good luck.

Also take the break from social media.

Recollect yourself :nail_care:t4:

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Thanks I’m not sure what I’ll do but yea I’m def taking a break i can’t handle all this thank u for the help

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Thanks for the help

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Of course, much love towards your way :rose::slightly_smiling_face:.

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Thanks same for u

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what phone you have, just so I know which video to send you about how to block a person

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