Hey guys help 😃🤚🏽

anon71033048 · February 24, 2021, 8:14pm

Oh no! What r they? Send ss

luisa_lovely1 · February 24, 2021, 8:16pm

evelynn.writes · February 24, 2021, 8:16pm

This guy is so frustrating

luisa_lovely1 · February 24, 2021, 8:20pm

Yes

anon71033048 · February 24, 2021, 8:30pm

I recommend just stopping the game bc tbh he’ll probably stop responding after a bit, he wants to show superiority to u, when infact, u’ve done nth & ur totally equal to him even tho u have a crush. Maybe just say ‘gtg, friends calling me abt smth more important than this n I’m bored of this game w u ngl.’

luisa_lovely1 · February 24, 2021, 9:31pm

Y’all I’m FLIPPIN FREAKING OUT

HELP HELP HELP HELPPPP

luisa_lovely1 · February 24, 2021, 9:32pm

I THINK HE KNOWS I LIKE HIM I’m officially done

juliewrites · February 24, 2021, 9:33pm

You might get flagged on that… just a heads up… because of the swearing part

I don’t want u to get in trouble

luisa_lovely1 · February 24, 2021, 9:33pm

I edited it

luisa_lovely1 · February 24, 2021, 9:34pm

Someone help how do I even reply to that I think he knows ahhhh ahh ahh ah ah I want to freak out rn actually I already am freaking out

bakedpotato · February 24, 2021, 9:39pm

I personally think this situation is silly. Don’t freak out over this. First if he is seeing someone I think you should back off it is not a nice situation to be in. But if you still want to continue this whatever this is. Say wouldn’t you like to know then say yes.

luisa_lovely1 · February 24, 2021, 9:41pm

Ok I know it sounds silly but I just really like him

JustAPerson · February 24, 2021, 9:46pm

well I get that you like him but he sounds toxic. the right person will be with you from the start. my parents (who are still together and going strong) went out on a date the first day of meeting each other (granted family friends had told my mom that my dad was a nice guy, WHO WAS SINGLE!!). I’m not saying every relationship would move that fast but it shouldn’t be this slow. I get that you are kids but still, this boy sounds toxic. he isn’t treating you the way the one will. I say you answer the question so it doesn’t seem like its anything big but then I would leave. delete the contact, block the boy, this boy knows your 'secret; and he is taking advantage of you for it. I think it’s time to call it off. do you really want to be stuck in a threesome? ok after all of that, what I mean to say is, this boy is treating you like crap. just cuz TikTok says that it will work out doesn’t mean that it will. This boy is toxic and manipulative. he is playing with your feelings. he’s causing you pain and he knows it. I think it’s time to call it off.

ok that was really hard to type, my hand hurts now

bakedpotato · February 24, 2021, 9:46pm

I can tell but you are really young, you are going to like a lot of other people. I just really don’t think this is fair to whoever he is currently seeing. And as much as this might be harsh, I want to be realistic with you it probably won’t last. Spend this time exploring something else if it is “meant to be” then it will happen sooner or later.

lostintranslation · February 24, 2021, 10:08pm

Wow so I just read all 394 responses on this thread and WHAT a time that was.

My advice:

He’s just saying these things because he knows you’re into him and he’s feeding your ego. Most guys are like that at that age. Literally went through the same thing when I was in 8th grade. They need a little more time to mature.
It’s not a good idea to flirt with a guy in a relationship for a variety of reasons. Firstly, unfair to the girl. Secondly, unfair to the guy. Thirdly, if he does do something with you, he’s cheating, you’re helping him cheat and you’re hurting the girl in the process. At the end of the day, his current girlfriend is going to be hurt, you’re going to be hurt because even if he breaks up with her for you, he’ll cheat again and lastly he’s not going to care because he’s a typical male and is just here for female attention.
He’s sort of flirting with you despite being in another relationship so he’s not worth your time anyway and probably needs to grow up because that’s what some people might consider cheating. (If he’s willing to two-time now, imagine what he’ll do when he gets a little older.)

juliewrites · February 24, 2021, 10:14pm

She said he had a sort-of girlfriend… so they aren’t official? idk… but you’re right. @luisa_lovely1 maybe it’s time to back down a little and wait. And like @bakedpotato said, you’re young, so plenty of guys out there

Sorry that things didn’t exactly work out the way you wanted them to…
(And ignore me I’m like the worst person when it comes to crushes and relationships)

luisa_lovely1 · February 24, 2021, 10:18pm

Hey everyone thank u for all the advice and I agree with all of u me personally I think I’m using the knowing him since pre k an excuse to not cut him off since he have a sort of bond but I realize now that our bond doesn’t mean shit

lostintranslation · February 24, 2021, 10:26pm

That doesn’t mean your bond doesn’t mean anything, but it just means that he’s not the type of guy you want to get into a relationship with. Honestly, just friend zone him and move on. No need to cut him out completely.

@juliewrites also you don’t wanna be in any sort of relationship regardless of the extent to which you’re involved if he’s not loyal and you’re expecting him to be.

luisa_lovely1 · February 25, 2021, 1:45am

Y’all are gonna be real disappointed in me ok ok ok please someone tell me how do I stop talking to him

JustAPerson · February 25, 2021, 1:46am

Block him delete his contact. Literally anything so you can’t reach out to him