Ok, that’s really scary, I’m worried for you that you lost your self-esteem from losing a friend, but I think it can happen. However, I believe you’re in the wrong to call her out in this post, no matter how much you dislike her actions.
According to the Forum General Rules: “ Posting uncomfortable messages and posting negative content or creating content that paints other members in a negative or hurtful light in NOT allowed.”
I believe this message will make her very uncomfortable and paint her in a negative light.
I get it you’re upset, but instead of calling her out for all to see what she did, PM her. Discuss with her how you feel.
Sometimes when we’re super upset, we tend to post stuff we wouldn’t have posted if we cooled down.
P.S I hope everything works out for you and wishing you lots of luck. Remember, people go through bad stuff all the time, but we gotta keep standing still and find joy in life