i agree. it is good to point out things where people seem toxic, which is why agreed with your original view because it seemed that way. but i wouldn’t go as far as comparing her to those girls because she just doesn’t seem like that type of person. just confused and inexperienced is all.
but yeah - @OliviaWrites4, @line123462’s point of wanting to be in a relationship just because isn’t a good enough reason to be with him. i know you clarified you didn’t mean it that way, but to be sure, you should really think about how you feel about him. would being with him make you happy because of the person he is, or because you’d be taken?