I need your advice 
See, there is this girl, we have been talking for the past 7 months (almost 8) and I…I think I really like her.
So where is the problem??
Well I have a boyfriend and I love him like I love her and we have been dating for the past 3 years.
I am so confused about whom to choose 
On top of that!! I don’t know how she feels about me…
You all, HELP PLEASE
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Um, I’ve never personally been in this position before 
but I know a few people who have (:
At the time, they asked me for advice I gave them the best I could think of which was 'Go With Your Heart & You’ll Rarely Go Wrong’
I’m going to say the exact same to u but also with a little extra (:
Quite A Few Quotes That May Help U
- Go With Your Heart & You’ll Rarely Go Wrong
- Love the life you live. Live the life you love. Bob Marley
- Not how long but how well you have lived is the main thing. Seneca
- You miss 100 percent of the shots you do not take. Wayne Gretzky
- You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough. Mae West
- Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined. Henry David Thoreau
- Not all those who wander are lost. J.R.R. Tolkien
Hope these help in some way or another, if u need anymore help or actual advice…just pm me (:
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Thank you so much! I’ll be sure to pm you!
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You’re welcome & go ahead…my pms are always open (:
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I’m probably the last person you should take advice from, but I’d say you should maybe stay with the boy until you figure if she feels the same way, because if you break up with him, and for whatever reason she doesn’t feel the same way, you may not have anyone.
But like I said…I am unqualified to give professional advice
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Thanks for the advice! I’ll keep that in mind 
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If your still struggling/undecided, try looking on this thread =
It may help u in some way or another (:
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If you love your boyfriend, why are you talking to the girl?
It’s not fair on him. He deserves to know, as hard as that will be. Let him decide whether or not he wants to be in a relationship with you. You owe him that at least.
You might as well tell her. Worst case scenario? She doesn’t like you back, but it’s not the end of the world.
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I don’t know anything about relationships since all the ones in my life are sh*t but I say that you need to be on your own. These mixed feelings and being in a relationship won’t help in my opinion.
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I agree. I know we can’t help how we feel, but at least tell your boyfriend about this. I think it would be a little messed up just to dump him without any warning and go date someone else.
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We were just friends (her and me)…but I am not completely sure of my feelings for her…
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I was thinking the same thing actually because I want to stay loyal to him…
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If you aren’t completely sure of your feelings for her, I suggest you wait until you figure your feelings out, and you are ABSOLUTELY sure of how you feel before doing anything. Wouldn’t want to jeopardize a good relationship because of uncertainty.
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Yes!
Thank you 
…I will keep the advice in mind… probably I need a lil more time to think if my feelings are true for her or not…
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I think people are capable of falling in love with multiple people at the same time. Howver, all people involved should know.
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Definitely! There are no rules for love. It’s just a feeling that can come at any time (That sounded very cheesy).
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True!!
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I’ve had these feeling and was considering asking if they would be open to a poly relationship. But opted out bc I was to scared
also this is the first time I’ve told someone about me wanting a poly relationship
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Yeah, I agree with you and I’m sorry if it came out as rude and not understanding.
I have also loved two guys at the same time and I fall in love very fast, so I’m not the one that should be talking lol
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