Anyways, I wanted to ask a question to everyone who can answer whether or not you’ve been in a relationship/marriage/etc. It’s been on my mind for a few days and I’ve asked friends but some of us don’t really see eye to eye on the subject.
Say, for instance, you’re in a marriage for over 8 years and you and your spouse aren’t getting along and you two decide to get a divorce. From what I’ve heard getting a divorce takes time, so, the two of you’re still together for the upcoming months. Some time into it, you find out that your spouse is now involved with someone else even though the two of you’re still married. How would you feel? Would you consider that cheating?
No. I wouldn’t consider it cheating because think about it, you are technically broken up. But not because it takes time to divorce. It’s not cheating to me at all.
Well, it wouldn’t bother me a lot, BUT, I would like it if he told me first. We’re still married, aren’t we? At least he should have talked to me about it and tell me that he wanted to see other people while we’re waiting for the divorce, and I’d accept. I think I’d diserve that much being his almost-ex-wife.
I wouldn’t because we’re going to divorce anyway but if I was the girl (who he was seeing) I would wait till they actually divorce just in case they want to get back together
I’d say maybe not cheating, because the relationship is over, but if he did that without letting me know and getting my say on it, then hell, that might be the entire reason I’m divorcing his ass. (And if he did ask, I’d probably say “Yeah sure whatever, just don’t bring her here.”)
But on another point, if I was divorcing my spouse, I doubt I’d continue to live with them. The most likely reason that I’d be divorcing my spouse is because I couldn’t stand their . So I’d probably move out or have them move out even before the proceedings ended completely. Each couple is different though.
I think that I would prefer my almost-ex-husband to tell me he’s in a relationship and at least ask me what I think about his actions because technically we’re still married.
I mean, you’re technically still married but you probably might’ve lost the feelings for each other so it shouldn’t be too big of a deal. But it may be hard for the spouse to see them with another person at first idk, I would be hurt ig at first but then I would get used to it
i wouldn’t necessarily be mad, we are getting a divorce after all… however i might ask if he ever cheated on me with that person when we were still in the relationship. plus if your in the process of . divorce i dont think you would still live together.
I wouldn’t, as both people already agreed to file for the divorce, so to me that doesn’t count as still being in a relationship, especially if you don’t love each other.
. So I’d probably move out or have them move out even before the proceedings ended completely. Each couple is different though. 