I'm just curious

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Have you ever feel underappreciated? Whether it’s in school life, work life, family, friends, relationships or any other situation in general. What do you do? Feel free to share.

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I feel my friends unappreciate me sometimes :thinking:
I feel my conversation with them is very one side effort.
I feel they just talk to me for advice or moral support.
But when I need to talk to them they don’t dare help me.
And give me a short awnser :sweat_smile:

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This is for my irl friends.
Not anyone on the forums :slightly_smiling_face:

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Ow I feel you. Been through this too. I hope soon you’ll have more friends who will appreciate you. Thanks for sharing :heart:

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I barely do anything for them though I wish I did, so no. :sweat_smile:

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I agree. Sometimes it is best not to do anything :laughing:

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I’m probably the one underaplreciating everyone else. :sweat_smile::sweat:

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Ow I see hehe :joy: :joy:

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I know exactly what you mean. Like you are there for them, but when you need someone…no one is to be found.

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Rightt. This pandemic has taught me that tbh. I’ve done a lot for some of my friends and risked a lot too, but when I need them “they’re busy”. Now I put myself before anything because I realised that you can’t really please anybody. :woman_shrugging:t5:

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Honestly, yeah, I’ve felt underappreciated many times. There have been many situations where I’ve been the one to take the lead on something and where I’ve had the responsibility to make everything run smoothly. I’ve put a lot of energy into it but I think people have failed to appreciate it and very few have ever said ‘thank you’. As exhausting as that sometimes can be, I just try to remember the people that did appreciate my effort because these people are the ones who mean something to me and when they appreciate something I do … well, that matters more than the people who don’t.

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Agree. This is a sad truth :sweat_smile:
Only when this happens you will know who will be there for you and who wouldn’t.

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Agree. Only when this happens you will know who will be there for you and who wouldn’t :sweat_smile:
It is good to put yourself first sometimes. You deserve it.

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I feel you. I hope you will have many new friends who deserve you and appreciate you.

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:100::heart:

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For a few years, I’ve been doing a bunch of joint projects for my friend (singular) I don’t feel appreciated, they’re not a very rude person, we just have a weird relationship. I’m starting to feel like it’s toxic.
What about you, @HazelJ ?

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Ow I’ve been through this too!
I used to have a big group of friends. But soon after I resign from the company (I worked part time then), they totally leave me out.

I hope you’ll find more friends who really appreciate you :heart:

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