Okay guys so. I decided to see my ex at 7pm today just to chill since he be wanting to see me. I have NO IDEA what to say to him when we hang out. I’m pretty nervous too… Any advice?
Don’t go into anybody’s house.
We decided to chill in his Car
Maybe you should meet up at a neutral location instead.
Not to be a grandma or anything… but… this is still a pandemic… and you haven’t seen this person in 7 years??? So technically… you really don’t know this person anymore. AND trying to do this during the holidays???
I would probably reschedule.
I agree with you @Creole_KareBear
Stay safe love
I totally brushed over the 7 years part. Why does someone you haven’t seen/heard from in 7 years want to meet with you in their car, on a holiday during a pandemic?
I just don’t think that now is the time to try to re-connect with anyone during a pandemic that none of us living right now have ever experienced before!!! People are dying left and right from this virus … and although people have to find ways to entertain themselves and be active in some way… it doesn’t seem worth it to put yourself ( and potentially whoever you live with ) at risk of exposure to this virus as it is starting to mutate just to hang out with a virtual stranger!!!
Plus… 7 years of not dealing with this person… and the person in question is an Ex …
Usually Ex’s are “ Ex’s ” for a reason.
I just really want people to be safe and take their health and safety into consideration.
And I know people feel lonely during the Holidays… but … just … think about what makes sense health and safety wise please.
Yes that’s the virus is getting worsen not better and I understand it’s lonely for the holiday season it sucks I know but safe comes first as an priority and you can always do things do virtual.
I wouldn’t go to his place try somewhere local a place with surround with a lot of people and be careful because you don’t know what his intentions are and its so weird he wants to see after 7 years especially during this time with pandemic and holidays.
It’s best not to go out at all with him …in my opinion
Absolutely… I also would suggest not going to meet this person!!!
Be careful. That’s all I’ll say
Okay on a high it sounds like he’s looking to bang js so like be careful
edit: how old are you tho bc like I’m 20 and an ex from 7 years ago would be from when i was 13 and at that point in life is it considered an ex or just a friend you hugged on occasion
Yea, i’d definitely be careful meeting someone alone that you don’t even know. (After 7 years, you guys are technically strangers now). Just be careful and make sure you have something to protect yourself with. There’s awful ppl out there.
Okay, now I’m intrigued. If you feel comfortable with giving us an update, please do so.
My guess was either 1. Sex 2. He’s looking for money. But to be fair, I’m pretty cautious of people so I assume it’s not pure intentions.
You don’t have to give us any details, but let us know when you’re back home and if you’re alright.