I’m in high school and my best friend goes to a different school. It’s alright though because we still hang out after school, do our homework and let our friends meet each other. There’s this guy at her school who is one year older than us.
I’ve been just friends with him for awhile (2 years, since I was in 9th grade), we don’t hang out or talk in public, but we do know each other well and have spoken online. As a teenager, it’s considered to be “a big thing” when your crush and you have each other’s second accounts (spam accounts for posting the real you instead of your main account).
It’s not that I have like a huge crush on him, it was just that I felt comfortable talking to him because usually guys make me feel uncomfortable, especially where I live. He even called me pretty, but again as a friend way. You can call anyone pretty.
Him and I are very different yet we are the same. Mostly our interests are the same, our attitude is different. I like guys who are different than me, I’m pretty loud and he’s chill. i like skateboarding, he does too. I hate ice skating, he doesn’t. There were much more but I don’t want to go through our messages and accidentally like a message (LMAO). There is also much more I don’t know about him and he doesn’t know about me. I really want to get to know him more. We got a little close one time, which lead him to following my spam account first, but now we just talk once in awhile.
For a long time, I had trouble with my image. Two years ago, I struggled with stress eating, causing me to gain weight rapidly. I know i shouldn’t be comparing myself to other girls but I feel like he wouldn’t you know, like me because of how I look. His girl best friends are all slim and pretty, don’t get me wrong everyone has insecurities, these are just mine. Sometimes I’ll think the worst and start starving myself, but I always end up eating anyway because then I’ll feel bad for doing that to myself.
I feel like I’ll lose my chance if I don’t become, “pretty”. I feel like I wouldn’t be able to tell him how I feel before it’s too late.
What should I do?