Glad I could help 
I think that’s what caused my panic the fact that he wasn’t telling me where he was going, maybe because he wasn’t very good at English?
I look back on it now and think it’s strange how the body and mind reacts to situations like that because even after I knew I was safe it took a while to calm down from the shock. Anyway like I say I’m glad I was able to help 
ps if you’ve got any stories at the moment I’d be happy to take a look… I’ve run out of things to read 