Hey, love! I know todayās been stressful but you made it. You made it past another day! I am so fucking proud of you babe. Now here comes the hard partā¦talk about him/her. If you donāt want to thatās okay. But Iām here to listen if you want to. I love you, good night/evening/morning. 
Feel free to pm me if you donāt want to post it on this thread. 
Love,
Andee
Honestly, itās not that hard because I havenāt seen him in forever
But Iām going back to school (in real life) in I think 1/2 weeks and Iām nervous because I donāt wantā¦the old feelings to come back
I donāt want to look at him all the time hoping he misses the time we had last year
I donāt want to have to wait for him to meet my eye and for there to be a spark
I donāt want to snap him so bad but also feel so damn nervous
I donāt want to keep thinking something is gonna happen but we arenāt even in the same friend group
I just wanna forget him
I donāt want to feel like he can control me just by asking me to do something
I donāt like that feeling
pls tell me Iām not the only oneš
Aww, love its okay. You just need time. Donāt rush getting over him, trust me it wonāt work that way, sadly. It takes time love. Itās probably not gonna happen over-night either. Focus on yourself and on school! Ik babes, the feeling sucks, it hurts sometimes but trust me things will get better, everything will work out in the end! With or without him youāre a fucking queen and you deserve the best.
Imma ask some questions just to help you,if you donāt wanna answer them its okay. just some things my therapist used to ask me
Are you scared that if he does miss you, you will miss him too?
Im not so good with these feelings things. so Iām so sorry if I sound dumb
Yeah I am
I am a lot actually because I wanna get over him
its okay! its normal babes. Just remember to focus on yourself rather than other people. Even if he does miss you. do what you think is best for yourself. and donāt feel bad if that means leaving other people behind.
I wish you good luck, love
Thank uā:pleading_face:
Literally have the fattest crush on my best friendās brother. Heās honestly the perfect guy. Heās a year and a half older, sadly. Iām 17 so the age difference wonāt be too crazy soon. I thought there was something.He acted like it for a phat minute, but there isnāt since I just hear that he likes a different girl.
I typically can just āshut offā my feelings for my crushes though, and it seems like Iāll need to again. Heās heading off to college soon while I sit on my bed listening to virtual classes.
I used to like this boy for three years or so, but my friend likes him so I dropped it since I realized it was pointless.
girl same ngl 
right now im just tryna lose feelings and its like bro do you like me or not.
its okay its okay everything is gonna be okay, maybe idk but focus on yourself, worry about school and not boy problems! cuz they suck
^^^
this is probably the worst advice id ever given someone 
Bump 
aw thank you frenchie 
Ofc bby 
If someone reads it then I am very happy :
I like him so much but it would never work outā¦ Heās a skater, I am more like dancer and soccer girl. He vapes and smokes, also drinks. I canāt go more than energy drinks. His friends hate me. My friends donāt like him much. I think he also likes me but he gives mixed signals. Heās so funny and he makes great jokes. Heās kind and caring (to me).
I donāt know what to do 
oh my-
here we go 
this is like super sad cause Iām gonna talk about someone who doesnāt even know me
heās one year older and goes to my school
I really wanna talk to me but trust me Iām right when I say itād be super lame
I really really like him and weāll itād be nice to at least talk to him 
Well um-
letās just give this a go
Heās literally 9 days older than me, and lives up hill
We have some things in common and we did hang out somewhat when school was in person, but I think he either like me or this other girl ( I think it was me but i"m not sure)
I havenāt really seen him in person or spoke to him in like 5 months since lockdown though heās in all my zooms
Iām just worried he forgot me or if he had feelings me that he lost them 
Thank you. 
Okay.
sighs
Basically I had this crush on this boy for all of last year but I misinterpreted the feelings. So he and I basically got pretty close. But reallyā¦I had feelings for him, when I told him my feelings, he friendzoned me.
But I am happier now because I have found my soulmate and now, I just have to wait a few more years until I can fly out to see her(she also helped me find out I am bi).
one of those boys 
okay if you think hes nice to you i think you should do for it! tell him how you feel. and even if he dpoesnt like you like that then at least you got a friendship out of it
lol we always go for the older ones
okay imma just share my experience and maybe this could be you. anyway there was this guy and i didnt really know him but like i liked him. same as you he was a year older, then me then one day random he asked me if ik how to skate cuz I was wearing a thrasher hoodie. now were sorta close and good friends the point is find something that you too have in common, you guys could get close like that!
good luck
U wise b*tch. 
nope my ass just has crushes on everyone she meets 