♥ the ranting thread. (V2) ♥

Rant:
HOLY MOTHER OF GOD, SCREW AUTOCORRECT! Autocorrect is an asshole or bitch whatever the hell the gender is. :triumph:

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I am pretty triggered. I’m not looking for advice or support more of a moment to vent because my real life friends will be like, “THERES A BOY??!?!?!!”

So I asked a boy to a dance Thursday take that gender norms. But it was a kinda, because 1) I dont want to be more than friends. 2) I could go to a party instead.

So after I asked he said he would think about it. He eventually said no because he would not know anyone at the dance. So I replied Okay.

I learned Monday that he would have said yes if i tried harder. ‘-’

.-.

Boi. I’m done with u

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I’m sure that most of us who did read for reads have had read4read moments that turned out funny, went wrong, AWOL, loco, you felt like you hit rock bottom, person went off the charts, etc. Ah good times

So, I’m going to rant about read 4 reads that went wrong for me.

Read 4 read that went wrong #1:

So I read this person’s (let’s call her Brittany, sorry to any Brittany’s out there), story-all of it, told her I loved it and then she didn’t respond back for months. Upon coming across my DMs, I came across hers and asked her about it. Brittany said “I deleted the app so I don’t read stories anymore on there” Umm…OK? Why do a read for read in the first place if you’re going to go back on your word?!

Number 2=

I’ll use Brittany as an example name again (Oops, I did it again…) Anyways, I read Brittany’s story and told her it was good. She said she’ll read mine when she has the time however it’s BEEN SUCH A LONG TIME AND NOW I SEE HER DOING READ FOR READS WITH OTHER PEOPLE.

Number #3=

So I did a read for read with a girl who wrote a mafia story. Anyways, after reading her story, I asked her when she will read mine and she blocked me.

Number #4=

A girl broke her promise to me and said she’ll read my story but hasn’t responded back. Also, I’ve been ghosted a few times : 0

I’m usually always the one who has to send a screenshot first lol

Anyways, I have more stories about this but I really don’t want to get too much into it : /

HONESTLY, some of the people I’ve done one with have broken promises. I deleted all of their DMs (if they’re not going to read my story then, then why read it now? You know, there’s no point…)

And NOW FOR WEIRD REASONS I’ve been blocked:

Calling someone out for image theft, defending a person from someone who was saying bad stuff "they told me I have no life : / " , I also got blocked by a person who DMed me saying why did I like their post? Because I told them that was a strange question to ask…I mean it is…

AND NOW TO DISCUSS SUPPORT PROBLEMS THAT CAN HAPPEN IN THIS COMMUNITY.

Yes, I’ve had people who use me to get reads : /
It’s because I have a hard time saying no (I don’t want to hurt their feelings)
I still remember the people who used me and I see their Instagram pop up from time to time but I do my best to ignore it (I know there’s a block button on IG but I really only want to use it if necessary)

I wish people were more passionate when it came to support in the community, but you know what? You just need to find the right people.

Thank you for listening to my rant, it feels refreshing to let it all out ^^

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I have to say, it’s really…really sad that people do this. I mean, I’d be sooo happy, when someone would like my story (I know how much work it is).

So I can’t understand why people just want reads, and then don’t respond back. I mean I totally understand, if they need time, because of whatever reason, but not answering is just so rude. :confounded:

And there are so many people, that only write there stories, because they want reads.
Please don’t get mad. I know that it is not very cool, when you take a lot of effort for your story and no one reads it, but I mean, it’s not everything. I love to write stories, because I can put my emotions in them.

There are some people that literally spam ALL threads and every chance they get with their story. I mean I get ot, but there is always a way to make it “too much”. Do you understand?

So there are some stories, I saw like 1000 times here, and when I am being honest, I would never read them, because idk, it feels like all they want is reads?

And I don’t think that the reasons you mentioned above are reasons to block someone. Because if someone blocks me, I would never tell anyone, but I think I would be a little hurt.

I just block people, when there is no other choice.

I totally agree, well said!

It was a pleasure :snowflake: :thinking:

Sorry for the bad english, I am tired

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Nah, your English is awesome :wink:

You make me feel so much better, thank you so freaking much for your kind words, bless you :heart_eyes_cat:

If I ever need advice, I’ll come to you <3

You have a beautiful way with words :sunglasses: :sparkling_heart:

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Thanks :blush:

I am very happy, I could make you feel better :+1: :smiley_cat:
Thank you for addressing the topic :clap: and starting a interesting conversation!

You can ALWAYS count on me and if you ever need me, I am always there to help. :heavy_heart_exclamation:

Thank you so much! :revolving_hearts:
and you adress and start really interesting threads and posts. :slight_smile:

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I just want to rant.
Why? Because it feels good?

Soo ahem yeah.
I got a really bad exam back today. And that’s really bad for me. And I kind of was shocked and hurt.

So the person that sits next to me in school is one if my “friends” in school. And she is not thhaaaaaaaaaat good in school. So most of the I am muuch better than she, so I always comfort her, try to make her feel better, encourage her when. But today I was the person that messed up and She hasn’t really stopped talking about her good grades and how happy she is for the whole hour. Really extreme, she also called herself a teacher when I asked her a little question as if she was the smartest and I the dumbest. And yes, I was happy for her for her good grade, but I just didn’t like the way she treated me.

But as always, I repressed all those feelings inside me and didn’t let anything show them.

  1. Story

Today some other friend. The best friend I have, that lives, where live (not the internet friends)

Amd we wanted to do something together and she
has stood me up again… :sweat::sweat:

We wanted to do something today. We wanted to celebrate halloween together, but she let me down once again.

She does that all the time and she never says sorry or something like that.

This person has done this multiple times (I mean really often) to me.
She always says that she wants to do something with me.

And then I wait for her to finish her homework, but after HOURS of waiting she says “I can’t go today.”
And you know, I am a REALLY EMOTIONAL person. So every small thing (like doing something with someone) can make me happy. But when she disappoints me, then I am truly hurt.

And this is not just once. It’s always like that.

And I think what hurt me the most is, that I thought she would change. Yesterday I sent her a message saying how much I appreciate her and the next day she treats me like trash.

~Friendship goals~

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Aww…

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Thanks for reading :smiling_face_with_three_hearts:

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You’re welcome, Miss. :innocent:

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My art class rant.

Rant

So my art teacher is terrible. He graded our final project that we haven’t even started. Once I had the tiniest rip in my paper and I had to re-do my entire project. Like, dude!! Tape!! Glue!!
He always stares at us creepily. His eyes are huge and he just stares at you for a minute when he’s talking and it’s creepy. He also gave @livvy613 an F because she used a different shade of red than what she was supposed to. It wasn’t even in a huge area. It was supposed to be lighter like this,


But instead it was this shade

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Guys, I have a huge rant coming

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A few days ago, I think about a week, the Trump administration released a memo. Here is a link if you want more info.

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Okay. Time to rant.

I woke up today thinking.
“why do I have to go to the occupational therapist! There’s nothing wrong with me. I am just a little uncoordinated that’s not a problem.” well. Now. I got a nice ol label turns out I got something called dcd. And I’m freaking out! My mother says it’s fine and I shouldn’t think to much about it but. My moter skills don’t work right! I can’t really learn new psychical skills and it’s just a lot to take on in one day. I am sort of breaking down. Because I am tired of people saying your lazy your not trying when I am! Even one of my best friends says those kind of things to me. And I Obviously can’t tell her to shut up because I am trying! And I am working it out as best as I can! I am trying not to break down in tears because it was a rough day for me. And I can’t.
And people say they understand but they don’t! They say oh I am mad at that kind of stuff to. No your not! Oof I am being a baby making excuses and all but it’s a lot for me.
I will probably delete this post soon but I needed to get this off my chest.
Also I don’t know if I should tag people I don’t think they really wanna hear bout my problem. Eh. Idk.
I just really want to talk to someone who doesn’t try to make me feel like I am not as important or it doesn’t matter shake it off. Again this isn’t a excuse and I don’t want to make it one. It’s just a reason. So if you think about it. I deleted that so the experts don’t come for me! Oh I’m not funny.
I’d you don’t know what dcd stands for it’s developmental coordination disorder.

Well I know we didn’t really get off on the right foot but if you ever need anyone to talk to just know I’m here

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Thank you that means a lot to me.

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No problem

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This rant has triggering subjects for some people

Let’s get this thing straight: My friend committed suicide last year.

I am not looking for any sort of pity. I simply need to express this somewhere because it’s too late to text my therapist to rant and nobody I’m close enough to rant/vent to is online or awake. Now, let’s continue.

I was told that she had passed through her step brother through her Skype account, it being the only way we could talk to each other. She lived very far away, but it didn’t mean we didn’t get close. She was like a sister to me, an older sister who actually cared about me and didn’t treat me like garbage. We connected on so many different levels with our intrests and being able to relate to each other on our mental illnesses.

I was told she had passed about a month after she committed, apparently. She was in college for animation, so I had assumed that she was just too busy to talk to me. Apparently I was horribly wrong. I still feel horrible about it for having guilt, even though I’ve been assured that it wasn’t my fault. I know she had a lot of trauma from past events and didn’t have a very good life, but I thought things had been getting better for her. Of course, there is always underlying things that can go unnoticed.

I miss her a lot. I would give five years of my life just to be able to talk to her again, to hug her too. We were planning on meeting up one day (safely, me being with my parents to make sure they knew she wasn’t some pedophile) when I was older than I was at the time. I miss her so much, and it makes me want to break down it being close to a year from me finding out.

I didn’t have a plan on where I was going with this, but I just have one important thing to say: if you or someone else you know is struggling, say something. Get help. Even if you think nobody would miss you, you’re definitely wrong. Being in the moment of emotions makes you think irrationally, and it’s best to be back to a rational mind before you do anything. Seeking help doesn’t make you weak and it won’t get you in trouble. If you need help, look and ask for it. If I hadn’t looked for help, I would have been dead around this time last year too. Suicide effects those around you intensely.

It’s okay to admit you’re not okay.

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I am always amazed by people with jobs or internships and active social lives or whatever that don’t drive a car.
Where I am, the only peeps who walk anywhere are druggies. XD
I’m a town set up for cars, and I am in the part of town that has no public transportation available and is near an interstate. There is nothing wrong with that. I won’t like it here as much if it weren’t so spread out, but I really need to get my license. XD

Why do peeps make such a big deal about ‘race’? I get why someone might identify strongly with his nationality, culture, or ethnicity, but race just seems almost arbitrary.
Take Oriental/East Asian/Mongoloid people. Do you need to have a monolid, epicanthic folds, a flat nose bridge, straight, black hair, and minimal brow-ridge, or can you get by with only a few of those traits? What about Europeans and Africans with some of those traits? They may be less common, but it is not too hard to find one if you pay attention.
You could take any physical trait, and I am sure you would find another people with it.
Is a black person with lighter skin less black than his darker skinned brother?
Are North African caucasians white or not? Legally, they are, but not everyone counts them as such.
What about ethnic groups that don’t fall cleanly into racial categories?
Does a mixed person have to identify with both races, only one, none?
Should race have any legal or social effect?
Can it be changed?
Isn’t culture more important? An Irishman, German, and an Iranian may all be white, but that doesn’t mean they automatically have shared experiences and culture. Likewise a Taiwanese, Canadian, and Mongolian could lead extremely different lives and have extremely different cultures and views, even if they are all Asian.
Does everyone else have this passionate loyalty toward their races, and I’m the weird one?

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