āHeyyy I know Iāve been staying at your house for the majority of my life since I was 5 but I donāt really like you so iām gonna live full time at my dadās house! bye!ā
Then you can come back and visit and stay with her occasionally
Just be honest but present it in a different light
Instead of I donāt like you bye lmao
Try something like āI want to spend more time with my dad this year so I want to be at his house moreā and maybe go see her around once a month to every other week?
yeah I live at my dadās house on every other weekend but
ok ok so the only reason that the judge gives them the choice is because they are still friends even though they are divorced so I stay wherever they chooseā¦
Awwwwww Amani Iām sorry to hear about all this. But yeah like they said you should try and live with your dad if you really want to I mean especially if you and your mom arenāt on really good terms it may be best to take a little cool down.
Stay safe girl⦠you got this. You gotta do what you feel is best for you. And like the others said if yāall arenāt getting along its unhealthy for you to be thereā¦