I do understand what you mean and I’m not offendend ( that’s also a reason why I’m questioning my choice)
I’m planning on adding characters of many ethnicities as main characters, I just want to represent them the right way, that’s why I want the MC to be a certain way, so she isn’t depict the wrong way
for example: it is impossible for a black/asian/anyotherethnicity italian or his family not to have had at least an episode of racism in his life, so if she was just black and never mentioning something like that, having everything easy and so on would just be superficial