This! ^^^ I honestly have to say, I haven’t really experienced the “struggles” that black people are typically known to have. While I do understand the sentiment, I don’t really relate. When I hear other black people talk about what “we” have gone through it doesn’t register for me. I have never been a slave, I don’t know what that feels like. I don’t place my focus on people who don’t like me because I’m black, that’s their own personal issue not mine. I keep to myself most of the time anyways so I don’t allow myself to be worn down by how society views and treats black people. And that goes for the same within the black community. For instance, I’ve seen posts and heard things about how black men don’t like black women because of whatever stereotypical reason they have. And I see comments about how all up in arms the women are over it, but I don’t say anything about it because it has nothing to do with me.