Your story sound great. Iâd love to read it. And I 100% agree
same Iâve read a lot of good ones, as long as they donât glorify abusive relationships
Certain fetish oh god
Iâm just gonna share some things with you here.
Iâm an author of mafia story, and I totally understand what you mean by this, since the 80% of mafia stories on the app include abusive and really jealous love interests. In my opinion, people hate them because of THAT, theyâre all the same; badass MC and badass LI who is extremely jealous and loves to control MCâs lifeâŠI think you know what Iâm talking about. I personally love reading mafia stories that have unique story lines.
But on the other side, there are some authors out there whoâre trying to make a different plot and make the whole story actually interesting. In my opinion, every author of mafia story needs to have a basic knowledge about criminal activities and things that are happening all around the world because of it.
I myself, live in a country where almost every week, 3-5 people die in a war between two biggest clans who used to be allies years ago. Theyâre involved in drugs, arm trafficking, money laundering and many more. And we all here are tired of seeing the same scenes. Young people die.
The main reason why I started to write my story is because, I want to escape the reality. People whoâre leading my country are CRIMINALS, theyâre destroying countryâs legacy and SELLING IT, theyâre arresting innocent people to cover up THEIR CRIMES⊠the list continues.
I donât know for others but I personally want to give my story a different frame, so I could avoid the reality, to make something positive out of it. Maybe some people donât like it but it is what it is. So yes, I know what mafia does and what kind of people they really are in real life, Iâve seen it with my own eyes. However you all write for yourselves, nobody has to like it.
READING IS A WAY TO ESCAPE THE REAL WORLD.
WRITING IS A WAY TO CREATE A NEW ONE.
If you wrote for yourself, you wouldnât need to publish your story. In the moment you make it public, you have to accept the thing other people have to say about it.
I donât know who needs to hear this, but if the mafia boss is your LI, itâs glorified. The fact that so many people just care about these stories for the âromanceâ shows just how glorified it is, and honestly, itâs really disturbing. I love seeing people saying âI know itâs unrealistic, and I would never want to be in a situation like that. I donât want that to be my realityâ. Guess what? Itâs so many peopleâs actual reality which you choose to romanticize for the sake of your story. Peopleâs suffering isnât your entertainment, so stop acting like it is.
If youâre portraying it correctly, this has nothing to do with you. Although, if itâs not 110% clear how the relationship is abusive, and how disgusting the mafia is, itâs still being glorified no matter what your intentions are. If the main focus is the toxic relationship rather than the mafia, I still feel it would be inappropriate considering how the mafia would just be thrown in there. Donât take otherâs pain in vain.
This is literally the minority of episode lol. Look at the trending section and see how many mafia stories there are. Mafia stories arenât oppressed nor are the prejudiced against. Saying to not glorify the mafia shouldnât offend anyone, and if it did, I donât know what to tell you.
You donât speak for all of the impressionable audience, what might not affect you can always affect someone else
Letâs not put that pressure on 12 year oldâs when we could be putting it on adults who decide to write these sick fantasies on a childrenâs app.
I would read a mafia story where itâs actually portrayed as disgusting, but you and I both know thereâs none of that on the app.
Your âstoryâ is someone elseâs reality that canât be escaped which you chose to romanticize for the sake of escaping yourâs.
Iâll put it as simply as I can:
- If the LI is some type of mafia boss who âchanges for the MCâ, itâs being glorified.
- If the mafia is not being showed as completely disgusting and abusive, itâs being glorified.
- If it wasnât you intention to glorify is but someone calls your abusive LI âhotâ, itâs still being glorified.
The only time itâs not being glorified is if itâs portraying it correctly and showing how much it affected Italy, and is still affecting Italy today.
Edit: But since so many of you are claiming to know stories where the mafia isnât being romanticized, feel free to tell me their name. Iâm really curious.
Period
Okay, so you understand that theyâre criminals and have seen it in real life, but why choose to give a false depiction and narrative of a mafia who rapes innocent people, murder adults and children as young as 3, and paint them to be this âgoodâ or âcoolâ idea?
Itâs not about âescaping realityâ because you can do the Escaping with research. There are people in this community who Iâve met who HAVE faced trauma and have been offended by the romanticized themes. When you romanticize itâs, you BELITTLE those who have suffered and give the idea to 13 year olds that this stuff is cool.
Just because you are not directly affected by it does not mean nobody else will be, especially those who have been hurt by it.
The app is made for 13 year olds but Iâve met people as young as 11 here on the forums. Iâm case you didnât know, theyâre minors because theyâre not cognitively mature enough to make decisions on their own and they donât fully understand right from wrong. They are also influenced very easily. And for someone to simply not like it or not read it, well what about the other kids who already DO like it and DO want that fantasy, and are clearly oblivious to your harmful theme?
Just because YOURE smart enough to avoid it doesnât mean a 13 year old will be.
Donât speak for those who are influenced or have faced the trauma
Guys, I think youâre being too rash. I actually enjoy mafia stories! I absolutely love them! Yes it took me a while to like them, but the more I read, the more my interest grew. Here are some reasons why you should stop hating on mafia stories and actually play them before judging:
Reasons!
Okay, now that I have your attention. Iâd just like to say. I donât care if a story is suppose to be fictional. The problem is, so many innocent Italians have lost their lives to this group, and promoting and glorifying it is literally a slap on the face to the victims.
Say, if I made a story about a terrorist being in love with the MC, is it still okay because the MC âcHaNgEd HiMâ? No, it isnât. Because so many Muslims are racially profiled, discriminated, and are constantly shunned from society because the media constantly portrays the Muslim community, as a group filled with terrorists, which is NOT the case. Iâm not muslim, but let me tell you this, they are NOT truly Muslim. The Muslim community is full of love, and Iâm quite disgusted. Itâs still offensive, and this is a common problem with mafia stories. What these authors donât realise is that what they call âfantasyâ, is someone elseâs nightmare, someoneâs trauma.
Iâm so glad I didnât get episode when I was younger, because, let me tell you, I wouldâve thought this was okay.
But oh well, because itâs fictional, itâs okay!
I hope this made sense, and the opening sentences were sarcasm, just in case someone took it seriously.
You fooled me for a sec I was about to pop off
LMAO, I was afraid of that happening.
One of the first stories that I read and fell in love with was the Chain Reaction series. lmao I just loved it because it was one of my firsts.
I really appreciate your reasons and I respect them. Although I agree with you on some points, I think others are too extreme. I wonât go into details. I just wanted to let you know, I have taken some of your points into consideration as they do provide a different perspective than my own. Luckily, I am still in the beginning of my story and I can learn from this thread, and take the opportunity to spin it into a slightly different direction. I am half-Italian with Sicilian ancestors, and as such, I know the painful situation in Italy. However, since the story is based in America, it never really occurred to me to inform the readers of the actual history, which I now see was a mistake. So I am grateful for your input. Although we have some conflicting opinions on the topic, I could still draw useful conclusion from it.
By looking at this thread, Iâm kind of divided. As someone whoâs not a huge fan of this genre, I donât particularly have any interest in it however, I donât believe someone should be condemned for simply enjoying a specific genre or character.
For instance, someone can like a villainous character due to their compelling nature or their relevancy to the plot but wouldnât condone their actions or encourage that kind of behavior. With that being said, I believe, thatâs itâs thoughtful for an author of a series to have a warning regarding their stories knowing that it contains sensitive material because it shows that their considerate of their audienceâs feelings and interpretations.
If a specific scenario or character reminds you of your own experience that you donât wish to revisit, itâs best to not continue reading the story for the sake of your mental health. I also donât believe itâs wise to immediately demonize an author unless the topic is something a lot of people continue to face and youâre not just reacting from personal experience since they donât know your life story.
I love mafia stories, some people dislike the glamourizing part of it but unfortunately, the guidelines donât allow to show the bad side of that lifestyle.
I live in a country where Narcos (aka mob bosses) are glorified and people love them, this sadly happens in all Latin America (except some countries). The thing is that we should be able to discern fiction from real life, most of the stories on the App arenât realistic and I guess thatâs part of the magic and charm of this platform
I know that young people shouldnât aim to have a mob boss as a romantic partner, but thatâs their problem (or their parentâs problem if they are minors). I know women who want to be with a thug and love that lifestyle because of telenovelas or the music industry, but the problem there is their way of reasoning, not the entertainment.
Fax!
Entertainment shouldnât educate us and show us moral guidelines. This is part of education, religion, and the family. People who are easily influenced are the problem here, maybe they shouldnât consume certain things because they wonât be able to say âthe LI of this toxic mafia story may be hot but I wonât be with a mafia boss in real life because most of them are nasty old men who do horrible things for moneyâ