His psycho sideš
Lmao 
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Humility is undeniably a very attractive trait. Lol. Thereās nothing better than having someone put the spotlight on you, even if theyāve had a pretty sour day themselves. 
-Lou-Lou
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A nerdy humble faithful person with an open mind, a sense of humour, humanity and a tough butt.
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To be honest i have a thing for nice looking necksā¦but other than that I like guys with brains I wont date an uneducated person EVER 
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Majestic beards. I love facial hair. The kind of stuff thatās like a forest. Oof.
Iād prefer an assertive person. Someone who isnāt afraid of me or intimidated by me. I hear this all the time from people and Iām so confused like, Iām literally an angel?? Lol. I always meet people who are either too passive or too aggressive.
Assertive, a sense of humor.
Pretty sure thatās the most important thing to me.
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Funny, honest, loving and loyal.
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Passion and personality
Not to be pervy or anything, but I think I find the look and their actions most important
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If they are sweet and funny and weird that is all i need. Tbh looks dont matter as much because one day looks will tarnish with time. But personality always remains.
OK, so I needed a tiny break from this threadā¦
After reading 2 responses directed at me, while itās admirable they voiced their opinions, I disagree with what they said but will not tag them because I want to avoid drama.
But itās really sad to hear that ātall is a bonusā
And thereās no proper reasoning behind it either : /
If itās not over-protectiveness, then Iām left in the dark to what it is.
Very upsetting.
Just imagine how it sounds; something THAT someone has no control over is being considered a bonus.
You want a guy with blue eyes? No problem, a brown eyed guy can get contacts. You want a guy whoās acne free? No probs, acne free creams exist!
Blue hair? Hair dye.
These things can be changed, heck even weight can be controlled.
BUT HEIGHT CAN NEVER BE.
Itās all dependent on genes, and as long as short genes continue to exist, short people will too.
Trust me, if short guys could choose their height, theyād rather be tall because of the way society depicts them.
There is even bone lengthening surgery (super dangerous) and grow tall (super fake) videos on YouTube for guys because they know a lot of girls like tall guys.
Sigh, what has become of humanity.
A simple remark such as ābeing tall is a bonus for guysā has caused so much stress for guys who canāt reach the mark set by girls.
P.S Personality traits can be bonus (oh heās funny) but height just canāt be 
Sorry for the rant lol, Iāll end it here as I donāt want to go off topic 
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Mostly their personality but looks play a small role too .
Compassion, humor, honest, loyal, dorky is a plus and Iām a sucker for a nice jawline.
itās true that shorter guys feel the need to be tall because of society, but the comment was harmless. it should not affect shorter people, unless they already have a low self-esteem
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Dude! All I have to say is you practically took my thoughts and typed them out!
I should also mention if you feel this way about this subject BOY DO I GOT A STORY COMING FOR YOU
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I agree with you. I actually met a guy that was 5ā6. That isnāt so bad. And look, itās 5ā6, not 5"6, youāre a paragon! <3 He sent me this message, he asked me how tall I was, and I told him, then I asked him, and he goes exactly: āI"m short. 
5ā6ā
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When youāre 5ā2, thatās not short, lol! But it is apparently a problem. Every time I hear a guy say something like that, I just tell them if a lady ever says some nonsense about your height, tell her to lose some weight and walk away. XD Oh, you only date ātallā guys? I only date girls who arenāt āland whalesā BLEGH!
It infuriates me a little bit when being tall is a must-have on a ladyās list. Iāll admit, sure it is a bonus, but it should never be a deal breaker. Men are protective whether theyāre 6ā5, 5ā6, or somewhere in between. Itās kinda in their biology to be, so girls shouldnāt have much to worry about in that regard. Thereās more than one way to protect your loved ones, not just by being more intimidating in appearance. (Thatās what it is, mostly, btw. People may not realize it or want to admit it, but height is packaged under āappearanceā.)
Height shouldnāt really be on a radar, in my opinion, when deciding a mate. Does he care about you? Is he pleasant to be around? Thatās whatās important. If heās tall - yey. If heās short - hey!
I dated a guy that was an inch taller than me. 5ā3 is unforgivably short for men. XDXD I left him because he legit IGNORED me! Iām like talking about something Iām passionate about, heās on his phone going āUh huhā¦uhā¦auhhā¦uhā¦ā I was like -_-
His lack of height, I didnāt even think about until just now, trying to recall all the guys Iāve ever liked/dated, whatever. His main appeal was that he was an amazing kisser, but boy! You gotta talk to me!! XDXD
More of the real guys Iāve liked have actually been below average height, which is 5ā8. IDK, maybe I prefer looking in their eyes without looking straight up. LOL
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humor
i mean if theyre not trying so hard then humor like my crush always makes me laugh
Probably humour you wouldnāt want to be with a person that doesnāt even make you crack a smile.
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They have to be funny and take a joke but also need to be loyal and needs to be able to take things seriously if need be
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