What’s your thought on fake friends?

So I know a lot of people have dealt with fake friends including me! I want to hear how you feel about fake friends and how you can tell if their fake…

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I think it’s the worst feeling ever and it’s just catches you off guard because you’re not expecting that from someone that was like really supposed to be there for you. I think you can tell they fake when they constantly make jokes about things, your insecure about, constantly blowing you off stuff like that etc.

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True, but would you rather have fake friends, or no friends at all?

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No friends :woman_shrugging:t5:

I rather have no one then having to constantly worried about someone is supposed to be my friend breaking my trust

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I would probably pick no friends to! But because of the fake friends I have I don’t really trust many people. But here’s another question do you think they know how they are making us feel?

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I’d rather not have friends than have fake ones.
It hurts and eats deeply into mental stability to realise those you thought were real friends actually faked everything. Happened to me once and I’d rather die alone than have those around me

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Do you think fake friends try to hurt you intentionally or don’t know that they’re doing it?

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I don’t know.
I just think you don’t have to fake anything whether love, or friendship. It’s mean to make someone believe in something that’s not real.
Doesn’t serve any purpose

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I agree.

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To be honest, when i spot a fake friend, I will talk to them. I do this because i have the opinion that they got hurt by someone else, and they didn’t have any one else to talk to. I will give a second chance yes but, if they keep being fake they can forget me

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That’s so true we don’t know what these people could be going through…

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I’d rather have no friends that’s literally what happened to me I had friends that just weren’t supportive of me as I was of them and I basically lost just about every "friend” I had so I don’t think it’s worth it. Like you gotta learn to value yourself more over fake people.

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As natila.epp said we should give a second chance because we don’t know what they’re going through or have gone through maybe there’s a reason that they’re being this way. But if they don’t stop then you need to value yourself and say I’m better then fake friends I don’t need them.

They’re bitches and can be gone

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Eh some are b*tches but some have gone through some stuff! Always remember just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean it isn’t there

(Line from Linkin park one more light)

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I understand if you’re going through stuff, but that doesn’t mean be fake to your friends. What you’re going through has nothing to do with how loyal you are to your friends. Friends are the ones who can help you. They don’t think about how I might be going through things.

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No one that respects him/herself will choose fake friends over none.
I speak for my self, I had people who would talk me down, I let go of those people, I’m better than ever because I know I deserve someone that I can trust and I will settle for nothing less.
Fake friends be gone!

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Just because someone has gone through sh*t, doesn’t mean they can be a fake friend and take it out on others. All they’re doing is making people feel bad and insecure… Most people don’t even think if anyone else is going through something, they just say whatever they want without thinking.

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Exactly!! Like there’s no excuse for being fake. That’s another level of taking your anger out on someone. That’s messed up

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No friends at all :woman_shrugging: Why do I need company from fake people to make my life worse? More importantly you can obtain their energy and turn fake yourself. How desperate do you have to be to have friends that’d you would stick with a fake one? Sounds sad.

Yeah :neutral_face: They’re called fake for a reason. They know what they’re doing. Unintentional or Intentional, they need to go bye-bye.

So that gives them the right to be fake to us? :joy: Nope, I’m not gonna be somebody’s punching bag, send them to a counselor or something :woman_shrugging:

Personally no… And we don’t have to give second chances, if they’re fake the first time, who’s to say they won’t be fake again?

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