1. Is it all about the physical? emotional? or mental?
If I was to fall for someone, the first thing I tend to look to are the eyes. Eyes express a lot of things naturally, or the mannerisms of a person. If they are someone aggressive, relaxed, stiff, or free-spirited.
In this case, for me, I would say all of the above are important to me. I want to understand who I have feelings for physically and verbally. So talking helps as well. Is he kind? Is he funny? Is he smart? Is he all? I also like men who are not afraid to show their feminine side, but who are still a man and it’s clear. On the other hand, I do love blue eyes, black or white hair and plump rosebud lips for some reason. I also tend to fall over intelligent, relaxed, dominate but balanced and comical guys. So,
So for episode, because creating characters have a limit, it’s important to think of that – the personalities any LI should have base on their background if you make a backstory for them.
2. Dose it matter what they wear? What they do for a living? How much money they make?
Personally, it doesn’t matter what they wear. If I understand their style of dress, I can gift them with clothes I know they would love to wear. Or if they want to change their style, I can gift them with cute rockstar clothes or nerdy vests or something. For episode, a nerd can love to dress like a biker and ride a motorcycle while the popular or bad boy dresses in vests and likes to walk. It depends on their personality, what they want to be and what they like.
When someone is providing for a house or simply working without worrying about bills, as long as they are not killing anyone for a living or coming home in disgusting crap but not washing off, whatever job they have is fine. If a person cannot stay with someone during their worst and help them, they will not stay during their lover’s best. The fact that the LI took the effort to make money, in general, is an achievement. If I know that they have the drive to become the best they can be and go for it no matter what obstacle hits, I’ll stand by them.
3. What turns you off of a love interest/ what don’t you like in a person?
Someone who bully others, a double-standard attitude that is too overbearing, controlling, being too clingy to the point of being controlling, abusive in any form towards me and/or others, someone who is negative all the time. Seriously, I already have negative thoughts, I need someone to balance me out and help me think differently. Someone who doesn’t understand me and doesn’t try to understand me. Someone who doesn’t listen, even if I do monologues. lol! Someone who is competitive, the type of guy who sees his friend doing something for his gf and then try to mimic that better than his friend towards me. Someone who cheats. A person easy to manipulate, seduce and/or walk all over. A liar and a person who evilly, charismatically flatters others to get ahead/ a person who walks over others to get what they want no matter the cost like if it cause someone to lose their job or die. A man with no morals, no mercy, or no sympathy. A man who can’t word things well, as an a guy who is so honest that their a butthole and mean about it. I mean come on! I’m blunt and honest but at least I know not to call someone stupid or whatever when I am. I like men who understands that people are people, not men who are ashamed every time they do something human like fart or burp. I don’t like it when the LI shame others for that either. So childish. Basically, all the things that people as a whole do not like or tolerate when interacting with others, especially when that other is supposed to be the significant other.