Well I married my first boyfriend so…
Holding hands with the opposite sex can be a non exclusive dating thing I guess. For example, if a guy is protecting you from traffic. That’s a cute moment.
Or a date grabs your hand to show you something.
Kissing is your personal space. Some people seek pleasure and have fun taking risks. I am risk adverse in those type of dating activities. I don’t want that person being apart of my memory at all if things go sour.